hi everyone... I AM going to be OUT of town...in L.A. for a while..
so if i dont get back to you please do not think i am ignoring you.
I WILL be back by NEW Years.

i love the forums on here. for a while that was the only reason i was here.

i would like to meet the love of my life...are you reading this ???


that person will eventually be my best friend and me his. we will be compatable and able to enjoy each others company. have lots of fun and laughter. we will each add positively to each others lives.

i love being in nature...waking up to seeing something beautiful.
i grew up in new york and have lived in humboldt county for over 20 years. i design jewelry and i am working on getting my business out there...on the web.

music moves me...SOULFUL stuff...
and also rock, blues,.. gospel.
led zepelin, heart, bad company, eric clapton, neil young
fleetwood mac,
lynard skynard,pink flyod, on and on...

sara evans, mariah's older stuff, EVA CASSIDY,(not well known but her voice is fantastically bluesy)
and i think Carrie Underwood is great, pastsy cline
keith urban tim mcgraw and faith

deep south black gospel.wow
Nashama and Shlomo Carlebach (do you know of them???...write to me if you do)

and i lOVE a classical symphony..

i am sensitive, intelligent, fun, loving... shy at first..

i would like a relationship where we start off by becoming friends , and we will also need to have that initial attraction and chemistry...( so for all the people who write to me from long distance...it would be nice if you know you can travel to meet me.)
we will hold off for a while on the physical part (did i loose half of you guys already? did i??? thats good cuz if u r wanting sex in the very beginning than you and i wouldnt get along well...unless you could put up with waiting)

this part is important: I want a man who would stand in my way before he let me walk out of his life (i did hear that in a county song)

i am a one man woman....once we are together i will never go behind your back. and i would never put up with that either. i am only interested in a man who wants one woman. (i dont mean in the beginning when we are just getting to know each other...but if we are crazy about each other and want to be together)

CLARITY in a relationship is important to me. to not second guess one another or to mind read. i do not like to bottle things up...or go to bed angry....i prefer to say it outloud, in a kind way, at the right time. keep lines of COMMUNICATION open.

keep it simple and short at the first meeting.
unless of course one of us is traveling from a distance.
we could meet in a nice quiet public place and get to know each other. then we can take it from there.
i would hope that our following dates will be fun...no matter what we do. because we will enjoy being together.