I am a recently-divorced father of a beautiful 4-year old daughter. I work as a software engineer for large computer company in San Jose. I enjoy singing, cooking, computers, playing with my daughter, and helping her in every way possible.

I am looking for friendship first. That is a MUST. I am NOT looking for one-night stands or casual sex. I don't drink, smoke, and very rarely do I swear. I'm not a sports buff, so you won't find me glued to the couch watching sports. In fact, I even stopped the cable service because I didn't like anything that was offered, and prefer to put the money to better use elsewhere.

The sort of woman I'm looking for must be WHITE (caucasian). I prefer women who are younger than myself. I recently turned 50, and am looking for mature-yet-youthful women between 30 and 45. If you already have children, don't expect me to want to be a father to them. I enjoy being a father to my own daughter, but can't see myself being a father to anyone else's children.

In order for us to have any sort of future (even just as friends), we must have a few common interests. And there must be some physical chemistry (both ways) for it to go beyond friendship. Agreed? Oh, and since I just got out of a loveless marriage, I'm NOT looking for marriage right now. Perhaps if the right person comes along, and we can spend a year or so getting to know each other, maybe. I'm still 'licking my wounds' from the last go-around.

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