Come on,, Its dating, not rocket science. Is it that hard to recognize physical and mental attraction? The rest will either fall into place,,, or it wont.. It's simple... you'll just know.

We obviously want to put our best foot forward when describing ourselves, We could all write a great profile describing how wonderful we are and post pictures from 6 years ago when we looked a little better but honesty is the best policy and you should always be yourself. After all, the real you and your real personality will come out in the end anyway.

Me ? I am a Good-natured happy go lucky, down to earth guy with a funny bone.. Not too hot, not too cold. I'm usually somewhere in the middle I'm Casual, balanced, witty, physically fit, respectful, responsible and grateful. . I’m out going, easy to get along with and can fit in with a wide variety of people. I have an open mind, a long fuse and typical don't like to over react or sweat the small stuff. I like to keep it simple.

I normally have a smile on my face, sometimes acting silly or goofy because life is too short and I love to laugh . I like sports but I'm not a fanatic. I enjoy movies, events, getting together with friends for drinks, socializing, dancing, playing volleyball in the pool, parties or a bbq. I don’t need to fill every spare moment with an activity and sometimes its nice to just kick back and relax.. Maybe a few quiet days of camping in the pine country. I know how to prioritize but sometimes you have to say “ oh well, the yard work will still be there tomorrow.

I have 2children who I love very much. I have always had a great relationship with them and they have always been my first priority. I enjoy watching and guiding them as they going thru their teenage years...... they're growing so fast.. I love them!

I've never been too worried about what others think and have tried to follow my own path, looking for the easier road but occasionally taking the rockier one. I would rather work smart then hard. I am wiser now and there’s a reason why the windshield is bigger then the rear view mirror. Its because we should be looking ahead more then looking behind. I’m NOT a big fan of jealousy, insecurity, controlling behavior, meanness and people who complain and criticize too much. By the way, venting is okay..There is a difference.

I try to keep things as uncomplicated as I can. I have a million stories good and bad but at this point drama for me is better on a movie screen.

When time permits, I am always open for meeting new friends. As far as dating / relationships and what I am looking for? THE IT FACTOR. A spark. A tingle You cant explain it but you know when its there. When you both feel it, you are probably off to a good start! . The IT factor is important but in addition, I am also looking for someone I can feel comfortable with in any situation and who will also be my best friend.. It’s nice to find someone you can share similarities with but also appreciate differences too.. I have no agenda ,if it works great, if not a few new friends would be nice too. Its all luck & timing

One woman's junk is another woman's treasure.

So where are all the good guys? Maybe you just found one.....


"Be very careful if you make a woman
cry, because God counts her tears. The woman
came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be
walked on. Not from his head to be superior, but
from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be
protected, and next to the heart to be loved."


"So if you find someone that gives you all of her love,
Take it to your heart, don't let it stray,
For one thing that's certain,
You will surely be a-hurtin',
If you throw it all away."

--Bob Dylan

.....talk hold hands and talk