Unpretentious, normal and stable guy simply looking to connect with a down to earth, all around nice gal to explore the possibilities and potential for a LTR and possibly more..... or just be friends. I am not perfect but those close to me would agree that I am a stand up and genuine guy. I am pretty much a straight forward person..... Don`t have time for silly relationship games.......... and neither do you.... I mean, after all, we are adults.....aren`t we ? lol

Possesses a youthful mind as well as a youthful body wrapped around a mature and wise soul.... coupled with a humorous disposition and a good natured attitude.... Assertive when necessary but always a gentleman. Genuinely affectionate and loving when involved in a relationship, as I relish and indulge in the human touch..... never to be confused with clingy or neediness. I hold a deep compassion and inner love for all animals great and small, (however, walking through my yard at night and getting a faceful of spider web doesn`t exactly bring out my inner love or compassion) lol

I enjoy just about all outdoor activities, working out, doing the homebody thing or the landscape project thing, working on my house, nice dinners in, nice dinners out, Sunday brunch, intelligent conversation, not so intelligent conversation, playful banter, tickle fights, stay home comfy kick back watch movie stuff, weekend getaways, kissing, playing and just watching the world go round. Its all good....


P.S`s

Born and raised in Bayonne, New Jersey.


Moved to and have lived in Orange County from 1980 - 2005


Moved to Canyon Lake in August 2005.




What age range am I looking for ? Well........................ lets just say.....

If you never heard of the bump, you are probably too young for me...

If you do not remember the bump and physically incapable of doing it now, you are probably too old for me. (Not meaning I STILL do the bump, I mean, I`m just saying, lol)



I am seeking to meet and hopefully connect with a woman who is * for real * 24/7/365. We mutually appeal to each other on all the levels that matter between a man and a woman and she "gets it" when it comes to understanding the basic dynamics and mechanics of a relationship..... it`s not rocket science.... The round peg goes in the round hole and the square peg goes in the square hole. Yea, yea, I know.... easy on paper..... a lil tougher in practice, lol.

This someone likes nice things yet is not overly materialistic (except when she is buying me gifts, lol). She has a serious and responsible side as well as a fun and playful side. She is very affectionate and loving as this comes naturally to her AND she will not be bitter OR hold a grudge when she loses a tickle or pillow fight with me........... (and she WILL lose). :)

In closing...It is utterly irrelevant to me what you do for a living, how much you make or what your academic or professional achievements are. Although each is definitely worthy of merit and praise, employee of the month does not necessarily correlate to sweetheart of the month. What does impress me and catches my eye (and holds it), is who you are as a person, an individual and a human being.

Peace xxx ooo

I am open and flexible in this area............ coffee works...getting something to eat works...... If there is a mutual connection..... the location or activity will become ridiculously irrelevant in the grand scheme of things....