I am a 40 y/o man who is going through a tough time in my life. After almost 16 yrs. of marraige, it seems to be going down the crapper. My wife has no desire for me anymore, and it seems that my desire for her is waning, also. I am a passionate, affectionate man with so much left to give someone, it is a shame that we are at this point. But, we are both to blame for this situation, so we have decided it would be best to move on and not hurt each other anymore. I am looking for someone who is warm, kind, attentive to my needs (as I would be hers), and as affectionate, passionate, and compassionate as I am. Right now, I'm not wanting a serious relationship, but someone to hang out, have fun, and a good time with. If you are looking for someone to take care of you, I'm not your guy. But if you are independent, want a good time, and see where it goes from there, then let's talk. You will find that I am very blunt, opinionated, and usually speak my mind.........unless it tells me to keep my mouth shut..........lol. I am in a very strange position in my life and I want sommeone to help me through this. I look forward to talking with you, and like I said, we can just see where it goes.

On a first date, I would let the lady choose a neutral place to meet for dinner, drinks, or what ever she would be up for. There would be no pressure for anything other than just getting to know a little bit more about each other. I know how to respect and treat a lady, so things would be lady's choice and we would see where things went from there.

Live within 75 miles.