Ok I can see it's time to update this since some have gotten the wrong idea and think I am not willing to marry again, thinking the other person means too much to me, when in fact it's the exact opposite. Basically I just have to know it's for the right reasons this go around on both sides of the fence and that takes time so I am in no hurry.

I have been thru a lot the past 2 years with getting a divorce and dealing with all that comes with that and no I am not bitter about my divorce just will try to choose better this time. When I said before this update that I’m not sure I want to walk down the marriage road what I meant by that was as follows I am looking for the one person that will spend the rest of her life with me and stand by my side thru thick and thin, as well as be loving and caring as I will be to her, when and if I find that person I would be more than willing to do it again, until I meet the right person no I will not remarry

I have met with a very select few on here and it seems most of you put long term when that's not the case If you’re not looking for long term as in hoping to find the one person to spend life with then save us both a lot of time and just don't message me.
Let me say this once again I am not looking for a booty call or one nighter, or a piece of a@* as if that was the case I would be under the category of intimate encounters which I am not as you can very well see if your reading this. I am not looking for a mother to my kids just that she would accept them and love them like they were her's. I am very affectionate and caring as well as romantic.

If you fall under any of the following categories don't message me please If you are a cheater, alcoholic, druggie and yes I mean even if there prescribed to you but you take more than directed to, a liar, user, or a thief then don't waste my time or yours.
If you don’t fall under those categories and are looking for a lasting relationship then please message me I am so over the drama and I don't want any more drama. I am not into the bar scene nor am I looking for someone who is I am of Baptist faith although I don't go to church as much as I would like or need to I am and always will be a Christian. If you’re interested then send me a massage if I don't respond back then I am not interested so please don't continue to message that's a bit creepy.

that would be up to the circumstances at hand at that time i can say this i can be very romantic and yes i like walks and candle lite diners as much as you but lets take it one step at a time and worry about that when the time comes