Okay, okay. I'm just having fun. With that said, I had to get your attention somehow. And, judging by how you're reading my POF page, it must have worked. ...lol

As you can tell, I enjoy causing trouble. Nothing big. I just like to stir the pot a bit. I'm always laughing and cracking jokes. So, don't let my pics fool you. I'm just mean mugging for the camera. I can be a smart ass at times. But, it's all in good fun. I'm not disrespectful and I'll never embarrass myself or the people I'm with. After all, I do have a reputation to keep up.

However, as much as I clown around, I'm serious about the things that matter.
If I say I'm going to do something, I do it. I'm sure of my abilities and my place in the world. I have goals and I work hard at achieving them. If there is something I want,I go after it and I get it. I plan and work hard to make things happen. I make life what I want it to be. I believe things don't just happen to you, you make things happen for you. I'm a strong willed man, but not pushy or over bearing. I just know what I want. If you like that kind of guy, I may be the one for you. My question is, are you the one for me?

My profile says I'm "Undecided/Open" about having kids. That's only half right. I would like to have children. But, at 41, I know a lot of the women I may meet are done having kids. I'm okay with that. However, if I settle down with a woman who has them, or wants more, that's a good thing too.

And, yes, the chair you see me siting in is a wheelchair. But, that won't matter to the right woman. Why? Because, I have full feeling and everything works. I don't get any complaints. Get the picture? I'm not looking for anyone to take care of me. That's not how I roll (no pun intended ...lol). I cook, clean, work, drive, shovel snow (well, not since I moved to California ...lol) and anything else that needs to be done. Every now and then I go clubbing. And, yes, I do dance.

My occupation says, songwriter. That is correct. Songwriting is my "day job." Songwriting is what I do. A couple of years ago, I decided to follow my heart. I can pay my bills, put clothes on my back, keep my stomach full, and fill my car up with gas. As it stands, I get to create anytime I want without restriction. That's all I need for now.

I travel two or three times a year to do public speaking.I love being creative. I also write essays and some poetry.There is a natural high I receive from creating something that wasn't there before I willed it into existence.

Skin color/ ethnicity does not matter to me. But, attitude does. If you're sweet and fun to be around, everything else will happen naturally. I like women who are sure of themselves. I want someone who is confident but not stuck up, obnoxious or cruel to others. She must be spiritually centered and have an honest sense of self. I'm always doing something. So, I'd like to meet someone who understands that I have a life and she should have one of her own. I don't care how "hot" you are, if you have nothing else to offer but your looks, then I'll have to pass. "Pretty" alone doesn't impress me. Hot girls are a dime a dozen. But, beautiful souls are rare.

When it's all said and done, I want the same thing my parents had; a warm, fun, passionate, strong, deeply connected relationship that will stand the test of time.
My favorite quote is: "Read, every day, something no one else is reading. Think, every day, something no one else is thinking. Do, every day, something no one else would be silly enough to do. It is bad for the mind to be always part of unanimity."

Christopher Morley US author & journalist (1890 - 1957)

We'll get some coffee and talk. I like keeping first dates lite and casual. No expectations and no pressure. Just two people getting to know one another.