This profile is purely an experiment.

"An experiment for what?" you may ask.

Well, I'm on here with another profile, written very honestly, listing my likes, dislikes, and all the rest. Every word of my profile is true, and I've met a lot of wonderful people on here. I seem to attract lots of interest based on what's in my profile, but I often wonder - what kind of interest - if any - would there be in me if I was COMPLETELY honest? If I was able to say to a woman, "this is exactly who I am, and what I'm about" without holding anything back, leaving anything out, or sugar coating anything, would she still be as interested? Or, like me, would she appreciate the REAL truth, and be happy to skip all the formalities, the long conversations eluding to the possibility of a long term relationship, when really, neither of us are wanting one?

So, here is is. All laid out, in painfully concise truth, in an effort to see exactly how "honest" of a man women truly want.

I'm NOT looking for a traditional, long term relationship. I just got out of one, and it didn't work out for either one of us. It was painful, it was miserable, and we both got hurt. So, I have no desire to thrust myself upon the altar of monogamy and commitment once again. Maybe when I'm older and ready to settle in for the long haul.

I'm looking for a woman that can can allow me to be truthful and honest with her, and be able to handle it.. I want a woman who says "I want you to be honest with me" and actually MEAN it. Too many times, I've worn my heart on my sleeve, allowed myself to be vulnerable, and being honest has blown up in my face. At the risk of sounding bitter, if you tell me you want honesty, and then freak out when I tell you what's on my mind, then don't expect me to feel like I can be truthful with you.

I am an equal outside of the bedroom, but dominant in. What this means is, when out in public, going to a movie, dinner, walks, whatever - I am eager to get to know you. I want to know who you are, what makes you tick, and what you like and don't like. I want to talk to you, and want you to talk to me. I want to laugh, have fun, and enjoy myself. I'm not looking for someone who puts it all on me to sustain the flow of conversation, or the mood in general. I want someone with opinions, a backbone, and the ability to give just as good as she gets from a guy with a dry, sarcastic and cynical sense of humor. I want a companion, and a partner of like mind.

In the bedroom, I enjoy being aggressive and assertive. I like sex, I like sweaty, carnal, caveman sex, that moves from room to room, on the floor, on the kitchen counters, the door of the open fridge, and everywhere else we happen to land. I like to be with someone who is as into me, as I am into her. That said, I like the foreplay more than the actual play. I like the exploration, the excitement of discovery, the rush of heat and adrenaline you get from taking that first unsure step into the unknown and unfamiliar. I want the excitement of the 100th kiss to be as exciting as the first.

I'm very adventurous. I am willing to try anything at least once, as long as it's safe and sane. But I DO enjoy pleasuring a woman, and am happiest when she's squirming, writhing and moaning because of me. So much the better when lying sweaty, disheveled and spent in one anothers arms, giggling and grinning and completely content.

That said, I am not opposed to romance, either. But romance or lust, it all leads to the same place.

Love isn't a contract, or a piece of paper. Love is a mutual attraction, a coming together of like minds, of passion, of lust of want, and an eagerness to be in the company of each other, regardless of all else in life. Love is love, and superscedes all other circumstances in life.

Am I looking for love? Absolutely. Am I looking for a long term relationship hoping that it someday becomes love? Absolutely not. I am looking for someone who sees the world the same way I do, is open minded and thirsts for experiences as much as I do, and will embark on that journey with me.

Interested? Drop a line, and lets chat. :)
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Whatever we can think of. From grabbing a coffee and wandering through pet stores to tossing water balloons at hapless passerby from the balcony of a high rise, to walking without direction, I'm open to just about anything.