Curious? Good, you passed the first test. Now for the exciting part!

I don't like spending a lot of time talking about myself - you'd find the real me after just a few minutes - but if you take a few minutes to get to know me you'd find I'm intelligent, passionate, driven to excel, and wildly sarcastic.

I like to keep a close circle of friends but am always happy to meet great new people. As for my family, they're as crazy and dysfunctional as yours but I still think they're the greatest. We even had a Cold War in the 1980s but we've resumed trading cotton and textiles with each other again.

The women I tend to date are generally some mix of challenging, intelligent, confident, successful, independent, adventurous and open-minded. I'm looking to meet someone fantastic who will complement my life and can handle my spontaneity.

I have no preconceived notions about how my perfect relationship should work but I have some ideas and I'm sure you do too. One thing I've found recently is that some people want so desperately to fall in love and lose sight of the experience - not to mention the person. So, wherever things lead, I let them take their own pace.


I am very much into physical fitness. I have played baseball my entire life and enjoy kickboxing and MMA not for the violence but for the tremendous workout it provides. I love dirty bars with live music, pubs, and classy restaurants and lounges. I'm not very religious, but if you go to Church regularly, say hello to the Sweet Little Baby Jesus for me.

I love greasy burgers (Five Guys, Brgr), great steak houses, grabbing friends for last minute trips to Vegas, SoBe, So Cal (lived there for seven years - love it!), the Caribbean and even DC grew on me - a little.

TV - Entourage, the various CSIs, but I rarely watch TV, especially when I can be out. Food - Delicious, mouth watering steaks and giant baked potatoes, spaghetti and meatballs, beef enchiladas and rice! My taste in music is varied and eclectic!

I love tantalizing crime mysteries and just finished the latest by John Lescroart. I am an avid reader, a speed reader, actually, and love JP, Jonathan Kellerman, Harlan Coben. I also enjoy reading about human behavior and psychology - fascinating!

If you've gotten this far, you probably have a comment - so don't hold back!

Drinks or a trip to Vegas or the Bahamas - it depends on how much we need to learn about each other.