I am a feisty, flirty, and fabulous professional woman, who is confident about who I am and what I want in life. I am professionally assertive and have worked hard in my life to attain my goals. I would love to meet someone who can appreciate being with someone who does not need a partner to "complete" her life, rather compliment it. I do enjoy my partner's company (especially on the weekends ). I enjoy socializing in any setting. I love going from a jeans and t-shirt kind of moment to a suit and heels evening, depending upon the activity (both casual and the fine aspects in life). I am a Gretchen Wilson kind of girl that way. You have to have a good sense of humor and really enjoy someone who is generally sweet, romantic, playful, sassy, a bit of a tease, and intelligent.

I am looking for someone who is established in life and comfortable in their own skin. I want to see if casual dating or friendship can turn into something more. If it turns into something more, great! If not, it's nice to have people with similar interests to go out with once in a while.


I love seeing strength in women and do not want to be with someone who is or expects me to be codependent. I am looking for a femme woman that is at least 35+. Although I have dated butch and soft butch, they tend not to get along well with my personality because I am such a strongly driven and opinionated woman. I tend to shy away from them now. I am by no means passive, but not abrasive and NOT JEALOUS at all. I am 5'8", blonde brown hair, blue eyes, great smile, and 38Ds (if it matters). I am not a twig (size 16), but I carry it well. I am a beautiful, confident, and sexy woman who is very comfortable in my own skin.

Despite my very outgoing self, I am incredibly sweet and romantic. I want to be a "girl" at home because I don't get the chance to at work, so I really let my soft side out when I am home (I hope you like a woman who loves to cook for you). Now, in fairness, I am looking for someone who knows what the "little" things are and can recognize them. I do the "little" things daily because money only goes so far, but common courtesy and respect are priceless.

I am looking to see if I have commonalities with someone first. I am not looking to have a U-haul kind of relationship, so getting to know my date is very important to me. I will not bother giving a "canned" date response because it is an insult to any woman to assume that she is like everyone else out there. I would find out her interests and find common ground.

It would be great if this initial dating turns into something more. If not, then perhaps we can maintain the "casual date" friendship. Please do not bother me if you are into "cyber sex," nude, or semi nude pics. Also, I have no interest in "casual" or "intimate" meetings...in case you have not understood what I am saying so far, I am looking for GOOD WOMEN as friends and MAYBE this might be more. The U hauls and dirty pics can stay at your house, please keep them away from mine.

While I understand there are many bisexual women or "recently divorced" women out there, that is not my preference at all. I have not been with a man since I was a teenager and have no desire to be with one again or with a woman who can't make that same commitment. I do believe in marriage and want the whole package with my future wife.

While I may be a social flirt, I am VERY LOYAL and not a jealous woman at all, so I don't get caught up in the "is she home from work yet" or the "she's out with her friends without me" drama. I know who I come home to and as long as you know that too, then we will be fine. I view my wife as my best friend and partner in life, short of having children in our life, there is no one that comes ahead of her.

I do have a son (almost 10 yrs old) with my Ex who I see about 2-3 times a month, I am not the biological Mom. I am not opposed to having kids with someone, but it is not a deal breaker for me...it really depends upon the relationship.

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