Relationships mean a lot to me and I am not looking for a "friend with benefits" or a 1 nite stand. They type of person that I am looking for should be drama free, has his own likes as well as similiaralities to mine.I do not play games, thats hs nonsense. I believe in friends 1st and then seeing what develops.If nothing develops, then there is always a good friendship. I don't rush into anything, friendships and relationships need to develop naturally. Chemistry is a key.I would like to meet a "do'er" not a "talker" who has goals and actually follows thru with those goals.It would be really,really nice to meet someone who pays attention to the little things or just pays attention (lol). I am very active in the gym,I enjoy working out and I am very passionate about fitness, so please respect that of me and don't be "allergic" to fitness. or if you get it (fitness passion) thats even better! I do leads a healthy lifestyle. I do consider myself a country gal, but I do love the city, broadway, etc. But if you smoke, excessively drink,and still want to constantly party,and lead the frat house lifestyle, you might want to keep on searching. But if you can make me laugh and carry on an intelligent conversation, then email me.What I am basically saying is I want the whole package, safety,security,comfort,my best friend,lover etc. I don'r "need" a man in my life, I "want" a man in my life and there is a difference. I do prefer someone who is within a decent geographical range to my area, very long distance and I just don't work. Please have a current (not a 20 year old) pic up so I can see who I would be chatting with, its only fair, my pic is posted. No pic, no reply.And a big brownie point if you actually read this profile! And as a side note, please,please NO SMOKERS!

probably meet for coffee and conversation and see where it goes from there.