I am looking for laughter and honesty, having fun with a person that you really enjoy being with. He has to be sweet,affectionate,a bit romantic and a bit serious too ..no, he doesnt have to be perfect, or look perfect..but I am a sucker for a nice smile! Someone who makes me want to be a better person,someone who accepts me the way I am. I love New England sports and I will sit and watch a game with you (my tomboy side)Word of warning-you may not want to watch a Boston Bruins hockey game with me because I will be yelling and screaming..lol! Boston will always hold a special place in my heart because of those wonderful Boston teams..Bruins,Red Sox,Celtics and Pats(forget it Yankees!) I love to have dinner out but I dont mind cooking a great meal,too(and if YOU cook, thats a plus!) I love dark red wine-Merlot or a Lambrusco..drink of the Gods they say! Italian food is my favorite...love Chinese, Thai too. I live in a small town in Northeast Connecticut with my 14 yr old daughter(I have only one child). I moved here 4 yrs ago and really miss Rhode Island. I wouldnt object to meeting someone that lives an hour away.. I feel that if he is worth it, then so be it. I have dark brown, naturally curly hair and dark brown eyes. I am tall but not thin...I am VOLUPTUOUS! I have curves,yes, and if thats a problem for you, then you can move on. I am beautiful as is, curves and all. I gave up smoking 2 yrs ago and I have never felt better in my life. I am outgoing,independent, funny,honest,compassionate, affectionate..love moonlight and kissing...having a guy whisper sweet nothings in my ear(wow!),romance and roses...bring it on I say! lol! Just want my best friend to be the one who falls in love with me...ah bliss!
My favorite car is and always will be a FORD MUSTANG..wow! what a car! ( I own a Honda....lol!)
MUSIC...the Beatles, Boston, Aerosmith, Steely Dan, The Eagles (love them!) the Doobies (love them too!) James Taylor, John Mayer, Peter Frampton, Genesis (peter gabriel and Phil Collins), Styx, Reo Speedwagon, Heart,Hall and Oates, Loggins and Messina, Rod Stewart, Sting/police, The Who, Pink Floyd, ...music from the 70's (the BEST as far as I'm concerned), 60's and 80's...dont groove on hip hop but I love jazz,blues, and some country.

I also love THE BEACH, READING, WALKING, JOKING, LAUGHING (SOMETHING I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO CATCH UP ON SINCE MY SEPARATION)

NOW what I DONT LIKE:
One night stands and men who are only looking for that..believe me,I have encountered this from men who want to meet me and just want the "horizontal mamba". I am sick to death of that one...dont contact me if this is all you want from me! There are plenty of women on here that will accomodate you, I am sure!
I dont like men who BRAG about themselves or how many women they have had or how good they are in the bedroom...GET OVER YOURSELF! I am not looking for a playboy and I am not a playgirl.
Sorry, but you MUST be 5'10" tall or TALLER...I am a tall woman and I wear heels occasionally and I am just not attracted to a man who is shorter than me or my height...I am being honest here and I am a VERY HONEST PERSON.
I HATE LIARS, CHEATS AND PEOPLE WHO THINK THEY CAN PULL THE WOOL OVER ONES EYES...I am not only attractive, but I am one smart lady and I wont be fooled for long.
I am a true romantic and when I DO fall in love, I wear my heart on my sleeve. I love to help people and I am very empathetic to those who are the underdogs in the world... homelessness and hunger are the two most important causes I have a passion for. I believe NO one should have to live on the street or go hungry. I love children and old people...if you have kids, I would expect you to be an outstanding father since its extremely important to me that you are..its speaks volumes about the type of person you are!
SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!
Drop me an email if you think we would click,if not, good luck in your search!
Anita

LOVE WILL KEEP US ALIVE, THE EAGLES(FROM THE ALBUM "HELL FREEZES OVER")
I was standing all alone against the world outside
You were searching for a place to hide
Lost and lonely, now you've given me the will to survive
When we're hungry, love will keep us alive

Don't you worry, sometimes you've just gotta let it ride
The world is changing right before your eyes
Now I've found you, there's no more emptiness inside
When we're hungry, love will keep us alive

I would die for you, climb the highest mountain
Baby, there's nothing I wouldn't do
Now I've found you, there's no more emptiness inside
When we're hungry, love will keep us alive

I would die for you, climb the highest mountain
Baby, there's nothing I wouldn't do

I was standing all alone against the world outside
You were searching for a place to hide
Lost and lonely, now you've given me the will to survive
When we're hungry, love will keep us alive

When we're hungry, love will keep us alive
When we're hungry, love will keep us alive

ask me!

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