Hi ladies, my name is john im from Bethlehem PA. but currently living in Whitehall. Im 28 have been divorced for over a year now and am looking for someone to be friends with 1st and then to see where it goes. I consider myself easy going and down to earth. I have many things im passionate about my career and my step daughter who i love as my own to say a few. the woman im looking for has to be caring,loving,understanding,faithful and not so controlling or demanding lol i know thats asking allot these days but im hoping she is out there.
In the last year ive really found myself have set many goals and know what i want for my life, i want a child someday i want to be a dad,a husband and a friend well basically i want a family but am in no hurry to get there not yet anyway :) I have a plan to buy my 1st home within 3 years so i wont be renting forever and to me thats very exciting to look forward to. oh yeah i do smoke but am currently trying to quit b cause i dont want to die young but just in case i will have a decent amount of life insurance lol . well i hope i did a good job of explaining myself i know theres alot more to me but to find out all my dirty little secrets :) you will have to just get back to me. well bye for now hope to hear from my interests soon .

here we go my first date well i know what i would want to do anyway lol. I guess it would be dinner first i dont care if the place is fancy or cheap as long as the food is great and im satisfied, next would have to be dancing i love to dance and im good atleast no one ever points and laughs lol im pretty sure she would be impressed. ummm well if there was enough time in the night would definately want to take a nice walk along the creek where im from just holding hands talking about our goals and interests yes ladies i can be romantic :) and as time goes on and dates become more frequent then i would have to cook im not great but i think i could put something nice together. well that pretty much sums it up any ?s.