"Some see things as they are and ask why. I dream things that never were and ask why not." .While I am currently "pre-trim" (thanks to a major auto accident). I Recently re-committed to a life of fitness (I'm walking more than 3. miles a day), passion, and fun! I'm a bright, articulate, and highly energized entrepreneur who is seeking a co-conspirator to explore anything and everything in Southern California. I'm warm, spontaneous, wildly curious, totally upbeat, and an attentive, empathetic listener. I'm clearly in touch with my feelings and willing to share them. I like where I am and I know where I'm going, but I'm currently missing the right partner to share the journey with. My friends say I'm an intriguing mix of goodies...a vivid life explorer, up for almost anything (recently discovered Tango), a sensitive, supportive friend, and an occasional pain-in-the-neck (anatomically incorrect) . a highly huggable teddy bear with an off-the-wall sense of humor who truly marches to the beat of his own, different drum (and not necessarily in a straight line) .a candid, highly functional, deep thinker, who's learned and grown from past relationships. Most importantly, a genuine grown-up.

My soon-to-be sweetie is a constant source of surprise and delight. She not only has her own thoughts, she causes me to re-think about mine. A great pal. A first-rate "fellow traveler"... She's up for anything... at least once. Things really matter to her. She is her friends' best friend. She can light up a room with her smile. She can break your heart when she cries. She can make all the difference in your life. In short, she's a catch. By the way, excellent women do not intimidate me.

Scratch the "perfect" stuff! Happiness comes from accepting and enjoying the real imperfection of the moment. By the way, the ultimate romantic location is the mind, not a four-star restaurant. Expectation of "Instant Chemistry" can prove toxic. It is the heart that makes the sparks and turns up the heat, not a roaring fireplace. With the right person, no props are required.
My ideal relationship:
A genuine feeling of being heard and appreciated for who we really are. We grow to become each other's best friend. We learn to respect and support our differences. We become increasingly free to be and thrive in each other's presence.
My past relationships:
They're a lot like little babies-very fragile, but with care they grow into truly wonderful, loving and attractive creatures. They also drive you nuts at times. However, they're worth every moment. Finally there's always more to learn!