I hit the wrong year on the drop down menu and never noticed it til someone pointed it out- I was born in 1960, on July 7th and I'm 49, it wont let me change it now which sucks cuz I like the whole 7-7 thing ;-)
Okay, after a bit of a bad response to what I've written I feel I should preclude this with- keep an open mind!! We're all grownups hopefully and the following is not meant to be anything rude or sexual! Then again it's a hell of a filter maybe, huh? I guess if you're uptight you're on the wrong page to begin with? Also my profile seems to be a reflection of my moods and has been updated periodically. Today is Sept 24th 1984 (jk, 2009) LOL
Hell, I don't know what should be first off anyway but here goes. I am a part time dad of a beautiful, perfect 12 year old daughter that's with me every other weekend. She will always be #1 in my life in anything- so if ya like me you'll have to like her too. Don't worry tho- she is an angel. Really.
When we were around 16 my friends and I agreed that- aside from handling the responsibilities of being and adult, parent or whatever, that there's no real reason to act so differently than we did then and from what I've seen in life its those people that seem to grow old before their time, if that makes sense. An easier way to say it is "you're only as old as you feel". All of my friends are the same and we see people our age group that seemed to have not only adhered to the norm but seem 20 years older- we think because of it... not to say we're disrespectful or annoying (unless you're older than you are as well) we just have fun all the time and seem to always have everyone around us smiling and laughing. I have absolutely no problem laughing at myself in fact if you missed it I might even point it out. I have a sometimes insane sense of humor- slightly to fully sarcastic(nicely(mostly)), sharp, goofy, stupid, intelligent, tongue-in-cheek... If you don't like to be happy and smile and laugh you're definitely on the wrong page. I like to have a good time, party some and... Okay, lemmie tell you this too- and this is muy importante... SEX... don't run! Lets take a second out and be completely truthful- whether you wanna admit it or not, being compatible sexually can, at some point in time make or break a relationship and/or make eyes and minds wander thus creating incompatibility and after you've already invested feeling etc which will be more hurtful than if you had been realistic in what one important need actually was. I AM NOT saying lets meet and 15 minutes later we'll get sex outta the way but if you're one of those wait 2-3 months kinda girls I'm not down for all that. Life's too short to live it 3 months at a time. Now some women will flip the page right now- thatsa good thing, thats what I wanted, the one that understands what I mean and thus is more honest with me and herself. Sex is a large part of the foundation we're building on which we can build something lasting, and honest... and let's face it, hot too (lol) I've spent way too much time not being in a relationship like that- prolly why I'm always so hungry. I am sexually adventurous, sometimes a little... Good gawd don't get me started, I can go on for days- ANYway...
I love to cook for a woman, I cook really good from feedback I've gotten and have always been the one to do all the cooking so don't think I'm a "where's my dinner woman?" kinda guy- nope.
Lastly, for now at least I wanna stress that I'm not some quiet, reserved kinda guy. I never run outta things to say so that "uncomfortable silence" thingy just won't happen and I will always try to keep a smile on your face. I'm very outgoing, like people- even if it's watching them go by and whispering funny stuff about them just to keep you smiling. I'm a true Cancer/Cancer in as much as home is my/our castle and there's not a safer place on earth than with me- or in my arms and will defend you and that to the end. And with my background things wont be left broken- I can fix and/or build almost anything.
I hope this is enough to give you a rough idea of the type of guy I am, sorry if it's not exactly what you're looking for but like I always say... "if you spend all your time looking for a "type" or what you think you want you'll most likely miss what was actually the best thing for you and it coulda been right there all along" ...Or something like that.
There may have been some typos in this installation of "who I am" but I can assure you- no animals were harmed during its creation *kiss-kiss*

First off the first meeting is NOT a first date. Having said that I think that depends on the person, the weather, the situation- lotsa stuff. No movies or comedy shows (lol) the attention is us not a third party. Tell ya what, I'm sure we'll figure it out, I'm kinda good at reading people and if that doesn't work I'm not afraid to ask whatcha like- lol