Looking for fetish clubbing friends and people for other Lifestyle activities. Undergoing separation from long-time wife, I need to get out and enjoy life once more. I am strictly No Strings Attached at this moment.

I am sharp-minded compared to the masses, confident, a wee bit eccentric, lusty 24/7 [OK, I have that in common with most of the chimps], slim of build, stratospheric in sex drive. amusing and polite, until you want me to spank you [and even then, no denigration or real pain]. I'm pierced [as pix show - EDIT! - OK, they deleted the pic that showed my piercings. I guess guys can't be shirtless either here? Whatever...], and have a beginning first tat of many; looking to get it finished by a different artist. Generally, though I clean up well I don't look or dress like most everyone else. I drive, am used to travel, don't enjoy too many spectator sports. Like to hike, looking to get back into snowboarding, love good food mixed with good conversation and good wine. My musical taste is varied but prefer stuff I can dance to. I prefer not to debate politics [except on teh intarweb] so even if you have strong views on such, let's talk about more pleasant things, shall we? Like how beautiful you'd look stretched out nude on the [faux] bearskin rug, with me standing over you, hungry. Yes, I'm a ****ing barbarian, but DDF. I am Dominant always, even if I am allowing you to tie me down; this aspect of interaction is really not that much of a priority. Bondage games are just that, games to enhance the intimacy and trust. I'm not looking for someone to act as a footstool, nor am I here to work out your deep-seated feelings of worthlessness. Not looking for one night stands, I prefer to know what my lover wants and compatibility can only come with familiarity.

For what I am looking for, see below in it's section..

What I'm not looking for:
Having what I expected to last forever turn 100% in the wrong direction, I am not seeking LTRs, but I am respectful and considerate and won't treat you like a disposable pseudoperson. The future's uncertain and one needs to live while one can, so with no further patience for idiots I am charging ahead. I am done with games, so don't play them or need medication to live. Also, no children in the mix; I have dogs, thanks. I am straightforward. I, perhaps like you, do my living at night.... Though I have what I guess is a gothic style, I don't wear makeup, though a few sweet words + hickey might convince me to do so for you.

Odds are that if you are under 25 we probably won't have enough in common to move on to more intimate contact. I prefer my women mature, so 26-40 is good for me. Intelligent, unusual, edgy... if you are these things and not on medication or in therapy, we might mix well. However, if you are shy about describing yourself, consider yourself beyond 'a few extra pounds', or use words such as "crazy", "dead", "trouble", or "thick" in your profile name, please don't contact me. I'm in good physical shape thanks to kung fu and a generally healthy lifestyle, and enjoy being naked. If you don't lust after the physically romantic side of life as deeply as I do, you may have trouble keeping up with me and that just won't work.


Also, since I am an adult industry alum, if you're using a picture of an adult star rather than your own... I'll know. I HATE liars. Don't pull any games or bullsh*t with me, because once I see that I've been deceived I'm out, even if it means driving away from you on a corner in Newark in the bad side of town. Though I will never tell you everything about me, I'm not a liar myself.

Well, if you've read this far already, contact me.

My Ideal Person:
Who I am looking for:

You are -

Uncomplicated. Intelligent. Sexy and confident whatever the personal details. Enthusiastic. Hungry for everything they enjoy. But you have a hunger that most average folks don't have, or, are afraid to sate given our "modern" [hah!] mores and constraints.

A good dancer, a good speaker, a good listener, an Olympic kisser. Loves makeout for its own sake, even when sex isn't necessarily following. But... it really should, shouldn't it? Know enough about what you love that you look smart doing it.

Non smoker, please. No BBW's, no TV's/TS's. No drug users. Also, have a job, a place to call yours, and responsibilities. I bust my ass at work only to have others try to take what's mine, so please don't expect a sugar daddy. Be strong without being catty or that "C" word, feminine but not weak, atypical but not freakish, orgasmic and not needy. I have a bit of a foot fetish, so tend to them, please, and cover them with style. I also have experience with group activities and can join yours with respect and restraint. Tats and piercings are icing on your cake. I shave a lot of my bod, so please also be well groomed.

I pay a lot of attention to a woman's style and personality. If you have self-confidence, I am going to be intrigued to explore the source and want to please you and show you you're justified. I work evenings and some odd OT so I would be a weekend or late night lover. Not looking for anything long-term, unless things between us go VERY well; I'm not against anything but given my circumstances I wouldn't be seeing nor talking to you every day, so deep romance could only come as time passes and it's clear our aims and goals are the same. I couldn't offer you a lot of my time thanks to work, and as you can see I am in a cooling off period over serious relationships. So, NSA all the way, baby! You can even objectify me as long as you're never rude or go crazy, I just want to screw the life out of you. You'll be pulling the sheets from your @ss when I am done with you.

I am interested in pushing the limits of stamina, dexterity and enjoyment for it's own sake. My taste in women is varied, as is my taste in activity, but each of us has a limit and I will not cross any of mine. Nor yours. Safe word and limits will be well-established before they can come close to our respective danger zones.

Does that sound copecetic? :)

People are so diverse that this is impossible to answer simply. We can discuss possibilities when contact is made. However, feeling each other out is paramount and compatibility is essential, and first dates will tell. We will need the privacy and location to encourage us to speak for a long time about who we are and what we want.

Female
Age between 23 and 44
Live within 75 miles.
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Must not be looking for Long-term