Since I have been single (5 years now)and on POF (3years) my attitude has changed tremendously. Right now it's
"Life is too darn short not to enjoy every single minute of it."
If you're looking for your soul mate and the one you can't live without please just skip me by!
If you're looking to just enjoy the moment, to laugh, are up for adventure and able to love the one your with for the moments your with them, well please drop me a note I would love to hear from you!

I'm not committing to any one person at this stage of my life. I'm not saying that it can't lead to that because if I ever do find what I'm looking for and the feeling is mutual, I would be more than happy to give up my Hedonistic lifestyle.

What I'm not in to is leading anyone on with false promises, or hurting anyone's feelings. If it's not fun and good for both of us let's just not do it! I am not a player, Players will lie to you, and I think most men are liars. I on the other hand am honest to a fault!

Also I keep hearing all these horror stories of women that find themselves stalked by some looser they met on here or someplace else. Seems as if almost everyone has suffered some kind of negative experience with some jerk!

Guaranteed not to happen! Have no desire to be with anyone that doesn't want to be with me. Just don't understand the mentality!

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Ok. In the overkill department, here is my original profile


The fact is that no matter what I write on here it will not make a difference.

The players all have better lines than I could possibly dream up, yet here I am tempting fate because you might just be out there. My life is ok, fun and exciting but somehow it is just hollow with out you walking beside me, resting your head on my shoulder and holding my hand. The whole world brightens for me every time you smile.

I am the one your mother warned you about, the worse bad apple there ever was, but something funny happened along the way. I grew up, matured, gained sensitivity and compassion, I've forgotten how to yell and learned how to listen. I've stopped self medicating and started self healing. I'm passionate about things worth caring about now... not just fast cars, rock and roll and motorcycles.

If somehow we do find each other, look out world, sparks are going to fly!!



"Profit from the fairest period in your life, these golden years of our pleasure are only to few and to brief. If we are so fortunate as to have enjoyed them, delicious memories console and amuse us in our old age, these years lost ... and we are racked by bitterest regrets, gnawing remorse conjoins with the sufferings of age and the fatal onset of the grave is all tears and brambles." (Marquis de Sade)

I am very comfortable in my own skin and feel at home just about anywhere, therefore I would prefer someplace where you feel totally at ease.