To be vague I'm looking for a girl who can keep up with me. Someone who's not boring, who uses their imagination once in a while. There's nothing wrong with being a little shy as long as you're willing to relax your inhibition once in a while and let go. A sense of humor is really important to me too. Yea, if you're an uptight person, I'm not the person you should be around ;-) I'm a nice guy, but if you don't get me, ya may wanna kill me... maybe even in a violent manner lol.

Essentially though, It's hard to find someone with an adequate balance of beauty and personality, but you have to have as much fun as you can while searching. You never know who you wind up clicking with, chemistry is found in wierd places sometimes...

Anyway, name is John. I'm Italian. I'm from Ozone Park. When I'm not workin, schoolin, or in the gym I like to go out and bar hop or hit clubs, or just hang out, I'm easy to please.I'm a college student. I work in Mechanical Engineering, HVAC for my family owned business. I'm independent, I'm straight-up and honest, and I'm loud, laid-back, witty, intelligent (Yea, I said it!) and sometimes (ONLY SOMETIMES I SAID) obnoxious, but, trust me, I'm more fun that way. ...I know a little bit about a lotta things (useless knowledge isn't useless at all) But mostly I'm really into cars and bikes, I'm a motorhead/car freak. I get lost in all that stuff, it's a great feeling, it's unparalleled by anything. So many moments of clarity come after moments of rushing adrenaline. I'm really into music too, I play a few instruments- bass, guitar, cello, upright bass; etc. I'm also into food and wine (it shows). Cooking is another way to be creative. I admit to being inexperienced and experimentation can leave you hungry, and that's why I have my pizza guy's cell phone number. (That's an exaggeration, I'm damn good!) Well, I know this is a lot to take in. After all there aren't many guys as handsome and incredible and as fantastic as I am.... ok so I exaggerate (again), what's the big deal? Being humble is no fun anyway...

Oh, and ask me before you make assumptions about me cause I'll probably surprise the hell outa you...

Well first off, I don't like the "I'm looking for" colummn on this site, it forces such a commitment. Why not start with saying hello and then seeing where it goes from there... Who knows what can happen...

Anyway, the best first dates are in a relaxed atmosphere where you can meet for a drink or a cup of tea or coffee and get comfortable with one another in person. It's crazy how people can really click chatting online and talking on the phone and then once you meet in person it's a complete bore-fest... it happens. But a first date isn't about the location, it's about the interraction... and I like to keep it close to her house just in case she turns out to be... let's just say "not exactly what I had in mind"... this way I can make a daring, ninja-like escape and not feel guilty about leaving psycho-date and gettin the hell outa there Hey This is is internet dating, ya never know ;-] Measures must be taken just in case I need to make evasive maneuvers, lol.

Well, in all seriousness, the ultimate goal is to have a meaningful relationship with someone whom I can connect with on multiple levels. These don't come by often nor overnight.

So if I've offended you,you're uptight and you're no fun... also no one likes you...
If I haven't offended you... be patient...
And if you are smiling uncontrollably, feel free to messsage me.

Oh... And what the hell is activity partner? What exactly does that mean and who really needs a dating site for this? "Yes, Hi. I'm looking for a girl who can help me build a scale replica of Yankee stadium out of popsicle sticks, it's my currently planned activity", that just sounds extremely appealing. "And not only can I not do this by myself, I need someone of the opposite sex to assist me with my wood... and... glue"... Yea, OK. Well that one backfired on me. That last part suddenly spelled out the value of the elusive Activity Partner haha There's one of those moments of clarity lol.