My aim screen name is ; Absolutsublime5 , feel free to drop me a line :).

Hi, I'm Jay. I'm 26, currently attending college at Rutgers , I took a lot of time off to work and only have a little left to go. I'm a big goofball, very quirky and funny. I'm a very chill and relaxed guy, who can get along with just about anyone. I love music(variety of tastes), movies. Love sports; basketball, football, baseball. I'm an avid reader, love watching movies, I own over 700 dvd's. Nice guy, doing the best I can, definitely motivated. I live in New Jersey, but very cultured , I'm an Army brat, lived all over the world, although right now I consider NY and NJ home. I'm very easy to get a long with, very laid back, funny, nice. Hopeless romantic for sure.

What I'm looking for is personality, communication, honesty! Personality can make someone more or less attractive, please be able to hold a conversation, it seems so easy but apparently it isn't for everyone. I definitely want to find someone whom I can talk to about anything and everything, communication is very important! As far as looks, I don't have a type, the girls I have dated have all been opposite ends of the spectrum, each one of them had something different that I was attracted to. The first thing I notice is face, I've always been a sucker for a cute face.

*Please be able to hold a conversation!*