hello, I find this whole site kind of strange, it reminds me alot of shopping, you just keep clicking till you find something you like, The first thing i look for is to see if you are a smoker because i figure a non smoker does not want to be with a smoker so if you dont smoke i move on, Next i look to see if you want kids, if you do im out of there, actually i just cant see myself having more but who knows, so if you dont i check to see if you have any, if you do thats fine i read on, if you dont want kids and you dont have kids not only do i think something is wrong with you but i also think your missing out on the greatest gift in this world.


i am a easy going person who like to enjoy himeself. i am fun honest and try tobe funny. i enjoy the simple things in life more than anything else. ive always belived that love is something that just finds you but it seems as i get older i dont get out all that much and meeting new people is somewhat of a challenge. im very honest and seldom tell a lie, i belive that half the story is almost the same as lying. i havent had much luck on this site as it seems nobody ever writes me back. ( is my headshot really that bad? ) so anyway ive got some bad habits such as i like to smoke, and i like to drink, mostly just beer but sometimes i love the whisky it just just doesnt always like me , humor. i swear a little also but never in front of my , i dont do drugs they do me, just joking but to say i dont would be a lie, i might on occasion smoke a joint but my dope smoking days ended a long time ago. some might say im a little messed in the head and maybe i am but im very faithfull and loyal, ive never cheated on a girl in my life, hell i havent even slept with many, for some reason ive not one to push an issue, i always wait for someone else to make the move, i guess alot of this is errelevant but to talk about myself is to tell this shity story of my life so far. im actually very happy i just want someone to share life with. i havent dated in a very long time and i miss the intamacy of a relationship, im not a hugger but there is nothing like a great big hug from your lover. so ive got a couple of kids, my son lives with his mother whom i havent been with since eary 90s, my daughter, my pride and joy is 18 and for some stupid reason stands by me. i dated her mother for about 10 or 11 yrs, life was great, about 2 yrs ago we went to bed and she passed away peacefully, the father of my daughter and her brother came to take them but she said no and stayed with me. there is nothing like the love you recieve from someone that does not have to. id be a happy man if she would stop growing up and wanting to move on with her life, seems silly or maybe even pathetic, "oh well" so i guess as the late fredie mercury sang " the show must go on" and thats where im at today. im looking for a special woman who wears her heart on her sleave, one who wont be afraid to tell me to stop acting like an ***hole, one who will listen to all my bullsh*tstories and tell some of her own. id like to have a relationship with no walls, no insecurities and lots of love. i have learned alot about living a life. i really dont want to come accross like a *****. im not afraid to look like one because i am very secure with myself. im not looking for sympathy or someone to feel sorry for me and im not looking to replace anyone or compare anyone, special people are special people, there all sorts of different reasons why.

thats kind of the short version, im sure everyone has a story to tell, id love to hear and talk about some, the people i know and love.... well ive heard all there stories, time for some new ones.....

not sure how the story will play out, i sure as hell dont want to sit around waiting for nothin, if youve read this far what the hell "every once in a while youve got to say what the ****" drop me a line and say hello... who knows...

little side note: my ****in shark ate my ****in crayfish, he was blue and a real fighter, he will be missed

forget about a first date how about a first conversation