I am not your bad boy. I consider myself a gentleman. I have owned a business in Tulsa for 11 years, my bills are paid, and I am happy. Life is what you make of it. A positive confession, a smile and a looking at the glass as half full are some of the attributes I admire and try to emulate. In the last few years I picked up golf and enjoy playing a couple of times a week. I enjoy travel especially cruises and beach areas. I have a bachelors degree in computer science and worked in computer training for over 12 years before I bought my business. I consider myself a free spirt, a good friend, and a little bit shy.

As you can tell, I am not much on negative people and sure wouldn't want to date someone who is depressed, unhappy, a complainer or a whiner. I appreciate an attractive woman who is intelligent, successful in life, positive, has faith in God and loves God( but who is not religious), and likes to explore life.

I think it is important to have a meet and greet before a 1st date. Computers are great but there is nothing like spending some time with a person, looking in their eyes and talking with them.