I'm a open minded guy looking for the same. I'm in very good health because I take care of myself I expect the same. What you see is what you get. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I'm dependable. If I sound like the kind of guy you're interested in you'll have to let me know. I gave up contacting anyone because I don't seem to have any idea what I'm looking for. So show some interest and I will respond.....

I believe character and integrity are the 2 most important traits you can have.The only thing I know for sure is I don't know anything for sure......but that said I have been practicing yoga and TM (Transendental Meditation) for 38 years and because of this I do have some insight, I do know stuff. Or at least I think I do occasionally.....how valuable is that stuff remains to be seen..... I am very wise especially when it comes to counceling my family, friends and associates but don't seem to know sh*t about my own life....ain't that a b***h......

I believe spiritual is more important than material. I believe in love and magic. I believe patience is a virture but sometime you have to do something even if it's wrong.

What I know is this...I'm trying to be as open as I can to the possibilities and not be influenced by negative crap from the past....

I don't drink and not because I'm in recovery or AA, because I want to be present in my life plus I don't like the way it makes me feel, or should I say, not feel. I don't have a problem with anyone that drinks occaisionally but if you have to drink everytime you go out.... I'm not the guy for you... If you have a glass of wine, a ***tail a beer or whatever every evening to relax.... I'm not the guy for you......

A woman once told me that she loved me but couldn't live with me.....to which I responded, that's funny because I'm looking for someone that loves me and can't live without me..... I believe....it can and will happen....

I'm looking for the right woman... not just any woman.

And think not
that you can guide the course of love,
for love,
if it finds you worthy
shall guide your course

Kahlil Gibran

PLEASE READ: If you're a women with a long list of must nots.... I'm not the guy for you. I'm looking for someone open and honest, not someone with a whole bunch of preconceived ideas about how love should be, or how the perfect man will have to be in order to be with her.....If you are rigidly attached to any point of view you aren't open to learning and you don't understand the basic rule of reality which is there are no rules, everything changes, everything.... and I'm definitely not the guy for you. As the poem points out we don't get to pick who we fall in love with.... if we're fortunate enough to find someone we can fall in love with.

Okay, if you read all the way to here and you're still interested you can find out more about me by going to my page on the place for friends. Just type in www dot my space dot com forward slash socal_surfer13 in the address bar and you can read and see more about me....

A quiet dinner so we can talk and aftert that a walk along the shore or a stream....I'm sure anywhere we are will be fine....

Age between 46 and 63