I recently told a friend of mine that she really didnt need to do these online dating things and that the good ol' fashioned way of meeting people is still the only way....well here i am now....lol

As my name reads, i am new to this, neophyte.....and well 63 is the year of birth and not my age.....

i have been separated since may 08, and in the beginning i thought that 'this is the life' however as a buddy of mine was quick to say, "you will get tired of that alone thing"...... and i couldnt agree more.

i am now, (or atleast i think i am) looking for something called substance, i want what makes me tick....and i feel that is only found in that taboo word of last year....."a relationship"....

i dont have a lot of pics, other than hockey of which i coach ( 17 yr old boys rep ) however i am sure i can find some if requested.

i am not into head games, just honesty, loyalty and commitment.....a moral compass is a must.

when i first signed up for this, apparently i had the wrong "what i was looking for" therefore i cant send messages to all. lots has changed......even the "what i am looking for" part.....("Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.")...please message me if you see i have what ur looking for.

well that is a start......i look forward to hearing back from you

p.s. if you read it...delete it... if ur not going to reply....