**update** I'm now a grandma**
Is there anyone out there that wants more then phone sex or cyber sex..or is that what the world is coming to... now of course that doesn't mean i don't like it but for the right man... he'd get that and more.. isn't that how it should be... at least that is what i want.. I have a family, a home, a job and not looking for some sugar daddy.. i want a real person with a real life to share..not looking for a father for my kids or a care giver...i'm in good health and take care of my self and yes i even exerice..i love to bike ride...I've lost 40 lbs since the first of the year with more to go.. life is to short... don't pass up on the small things it's not worth it...I'm far from a cutie but i do clean up well and can be lots of fun... LOL

I HAVE BAGGAGE and it's called a family.. don't we all.Me.. some say i'm intellegent but who knows.. i run a medical office of surgeons and do a damn good job and love every minute, good and bad.
i want a man not some little boy...i've raised mine don't want to raise anymore...
i like to keep busy and can do things for myself..camp fish whatever.. just got my motorcycle lisence... and plan on using it..I'm very independant and like it that way...i have raised 4 kids on my own and see if your not independant... so if you want a crybaby or a weakling or someone who will sit at home and pine for you... i'm not the one..
but if your a real man, one that is not afraid of being an equal a partner in every sense of the word then let me know.. if you have a question ask it... don't beat around the bush to see where my mind it at... i bet you i can tell you....most of the time...LOl

whatever we deceide together.. as long as you can laugh and have fun..and i wish everybody the best of luck in looking

Age between 30 and 59
Live in United States
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married