I am 46 years old and have a 15 yr old son. I am an Operations Manager and Systems Administrator for a Computer Software Company in Cedar Knolls NJ. I am involved with all sports and love to coach children. I would like to meet someone who is responsible, easy going, honest, spontaneous and loves kids. I enjoy romantic dining either out on the town or just home (preferably the latter). I enjoy hugging and kissing. I love doing "outdoor things". I enjoy movies (old time), television, board games and laughing. Having a sense of humor is also important. I really enjoy making children laugh and making sure that they have fun. I consider myself one of the best dads.. ever. I am looking for someone who is fun, honest, not afraid to laugh and loves children. I have a good relationship with my mom, have nice teeth and nice shoes. If photos (Notice I said photoS, not photo, and just head shots don't count) are not recent, lets say 3-4 months, please, don't bother. Please make sure you are SMILING in your photos. Besides proving that you have teeth (Which is nice), you are also showing that you could be a happy person. People who post photos with no smiles, frowns etc. in my opinion, may be negative, doom and gloom, boring, denial, opposition, no positive outlook on life, unpleasant qualities, resistance, basically a negative personality. I don't need any of that in my life. Oh, for those of you who read the profiles in their entirety, I find it hysterical when people, for example, have 10 photos posted. As one goes through the photos you discover that 1 or 2 of them are actual photos of the person. The other 8 photos are of pets, scenery, art work, buildings etc. I don't know about anyone else, but I find that annoying. The photos posted should be of YOURSELF. I could understand a few being of other things, but not the majority. The women who make the initial contact and have their profiles inaccessible, hidden or no photo, ridiculous and a complete waste of time. Before I forget, I hardly ever respond to winks, flirts, teases etc. Everyone must have at least one thing to say. A simple "HELLO" would be just fine and would probably get me to respond with a simple "HELLO" right back.. maybe more, you never know.