Just a well rounded good guy with a heart of gold. Honest, reliable, stable, financially and otherwise. Confident but, not obnoxiously so, with a pretty quick wit. Keep reading, I know you'll like me. Not into games, let's just be straight with each other from the beginning.

I like and enjoy a variety of activities but have learned, it's not about where you are, where you've been, what you're doing, or have done. It's about who you're with. I promise, I won't be impressed or intimidated by anything you have or have achieved. I will be impressed if you are kind, tolerant, and compassionate to everyone you come in contact with. In case you're wondering, I do have a hard time with people who think the world revolves around them. I grew up with six brothers, all of which I consider as best friends. Guess that would bring anyone down to earth. LOL!

My kids, friends, and the folks at work think I'm funny, sometimes just plain goofy. Try to be as up beat and positive as I can, which means, you'll rarely find me in a bad mood. It happens, as I'm sure it does with all of us but, it doesn't last long. I'm even tempered, patient and try to treat everyone the way I'd like to be treated.

I'm truely a gentleman, mostly softspoken but can and will be assertive when needed. Love having fun but also love treating you like the lady you are. Like doing all the "gentlemanly things", opening doors, flowers, pull out chairs, help you with your coat, massage your neck, shoulders, head, feet, or where ever you prefer. Hold hands, lots of hugs and kissing, I'll even brush and braid your hair if you'd like. Honestly, I know how to do french braids. Got a daughter who played soccer and I've been divorced for 10 years, one learns to do these things. I'm willing to go slow and take the time needed to get to know each other but, don't be surprised if I sneak up from behind to hug you and kiss you on the neck for no reason. I'm a healthy, strong, and affectionate guy. If you shy away from affection, giving or receiving, please pass me by. I'm not a serial dater, looking for quality, not quantity.

I do laundry, run the vacuum, keep my house and property clean and maintained, cook, as the saying goes, bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan. I was taught well. I don't sweat about the small stuff though, it'll still be there later.

By the way, the golf pics are from 3/08 but don't let them mislead you. I do golf but, I don't do it often. Thrilled at this point to play bogey golf.

I'll stop here, don't want to give too much information. Surprises are nice too....

I like to be surprised too. If I haven't mailed you, most likely, I haven't seen you in my "who viewed me" file. (Ahhh those silly, "don't let anyone see I viewed them" options.) LOL! If you like what you read and think we should talk, don't wait for me. Please, send me a mail! I appreciate mails being replied to and calls being returned. It's just common courtesy. I won't be rude at all, was raised with and have good manners, I'll do my best to respond to you honestly.

Something simple, maybe not. We can decide when we talk.