Are you more then just another pretty face? I could go on to give you more facts about myself, like my height (6'1") or my eye color (brown)...etc, but I have a feeing that most of the other men on this site just gave you a list of facts about themselves in the hope that you see something you like. I belief that the proof is in the pudding, but I will say this...I have a passion for life that seems very rare. I have an amazing family and the best friends in the world, I have my health and a talent that allows me to heal many things. I've partied with the best from the US to Asia and met some amazing people along the journey. I adapt and can be comfortable anywhere. Suit and tie or tank top and flip flops, it all works for me. If you've read this far then there is some interest, please send me an email. Don't window shop. I don't bite...Well, only on the 3rd date.LOL.

I'm looking for a cool "friendship", what I mean is someone to hang out with, where you can just be yourself, No pressure, No expectations. Just you for you and me for me and lets enjoy where things can go. If I found a woman thats above and beyond the average woman in NJ/NY, then I'd be interested in seeing where that could lead. If something happens then its meant to be. I don't like to label any type of relationship because you never know what could happen. I like to let nature take its course. I'm a bit of a challenge...a little elusive, fun, vibrant, funny, fun to be with, sarcastic, not afraid to say what needs to be said or have a little verbal sparring back and forth. I am very open-minded with an international outlook, a risk-taker who is always up for an adventure. I'm driven with anything I set my mind to. I've spent the last 15 years of my life chasing my dream (or what I thought I really wanted) professionally with little time or desire to have anything lasting. Sometimes in life you need a wake up call to find out whats REALLY important to you. I learned that having someone special is vital and that's why I am on the chase after her now.

First dates can be challenging to both people because of all the expectations we have with them. Is this person going to be the "one"? Are they who they really say they are? That is why I dont believe in the classic first date. I believe in get togethers that are casual and comfortable for both people. It could something simple like a 30 minute conversation over a drink. It could be something that we both like to do even if we don't hit off, like a wine tasting or street fair.