I'm a very honest lesbian who is inspired by taking some risks to learn new things and meet new people. Been around the block, the lake, the mountain, in several longterm relationships, in community all of those places that an over 5o year old single mom, Jewitch dyke who loves music and currently has a passion for Djembe drumming has been....and I still have a lot of optimism with also some deep sadness and compassion and some springtime, Beltane lust stirring me at the moment.

I love surprizes and value a little spontaneity in my life - so a great first date would be finding something wonderful and special in my datee - maybe she shows me something I never noticed right on a walk in my own neighborhood...maybe i find out she loves to dance or sing or drum with me.....maybe something stressful happens like a traffic jam or flat tire or something, or as usual I have to make a u turn after I pass the place we're going to and she doesn't really mind cuz she's just happy to hang out with me. Doesn't matter so much where we are or what we do but would love to feel that spark, that chemistry everyone's talkin about - I'm ripe for it.