Single, 42 yr old female who prefers locals(I don't drive). If we show a mutual interest,chatting would be a good place to start..........Are u passionate about ur values & beliefs? Are u who u say u r? Do u have a sense of humour? Are u playful, but know when to be serious? Do u know how to treat a woman w/ respect? Can u back up ur own words? Do u have a healthy level of confidence & self esteem? Can u not only listen but hear what a woman says when she talks to u? Do u have a love for life & all the good it can offer? Do u have a certain something that will intrigue me - don't tell me, I'll c it? Do u have a sexual charisma that will also intrigue me - same applies; don't tell me, I'll c it. This is by no means a "check list" but the more that applies to u, the better. My darn arm is getting pretty sore w/ all the throwbacks!
Clean cut men r nice, suits r nice, but a 5 o'clock shadow, long hair, a pair of jeans & a t-shirt r fine by me. Race or height not an issue. However, I don't typically go for blonds - don't ask me why. It's the the way it's always been but if ur blond, don't let this stop u. It's 2009 - No mullets or 80's throwbacks please!
I'm confident, down-to-earth, playful, easy going, with a somewhat direct nature & a sometimes sarcastic sense of humour, with a touch of feisty at times. I don't expect to be treated with respect or fairness/common-sense---I demand it! U will be treated the same.
I love to cook & bake & am quite good at it. I love nature & the outdoors---especially hearing the birds sing at 5 in the morning & a starry night. I don't really like watching or participating in any sport & I'm not going to pretend to like them if I don't---I do like MMA & a few other less conventional sports. I have no problem supporting any man who has a "HEALTHY" love of sports. I would love to cook for u & ur buddies for a game.
PLEASE...ABSOLUTELY NO MARRIED MEN, NO INSECURE OR JEALOUS TYPES......AND NO MEN(BOYS)THAT R YOUNG ENUFF TO BE MY SON---that would be around 26 or younger!!! I have enough going on in my life---don't we all? Don't tell me u have no baggage, cuz we all do! I don't need to add too mine! As far as those of u who r going to ask me, "What r u looking for,?" I'm looking for, well.....whatever happens. It is what it is! PS --> I'M NOT A SHALLOW WOMAN BUT AS A HUMAN BEING I NEED SOMETHING TO TO BE INITIALLY PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO & THE PIC U SEND WILL SAY A LOT. AS LONG AS THERE'S SOMETHING "I'M" ATTRACTED TO IS ALL THAT MATTERS. IT COULD BE SOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS UR SMILE OR PERHAPS UR EYES - IT COULD ALSO BE AN OVERALL APPEARANCE. BUT HOW AM I GOING TO C ANYTHING IF U SEND ME A POOR QUALITY PIC OR A PIC OF UR DOG, MOTORCYCLE OR OF ANYTHING ELSE BUT U? WHEN SENDING A PIC OF U, PLEASE MAKE SURE IT'S CLEAR & IT'S LARGE ENOUGH TO BE ABLE TO IDENTIFY UR FEATURES. IF IT'S A GROUP PIC, PLEASE IDENTIFY WHICH IS U. I "DELETE" A LOT SIMPLY DUE TO POOR PICS.
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I have particular preferences for a "1st meet"---typically I'm not into the "Timmies" thing but will do it. On a "1st meet," I prefer to go for a walk in a nice,quiet place. I consider the 1st date to be when we hook up AFTER we initially meet. As far as I'm concerned, the 1st meet is simply to c if there's enough chemistry to go out on a 1st date.