I'm a single dad raising two daughters 17 and 9, whom I love with all my heart. And yes they are the best part of me. I'm not looking for a mom for them, I have that covered, I do that job myself. I can rock my head and snap (Z's) just as good as any woman, although I scare the hell out of myself sometimes, LOL. I've done the dipers and kissed the hearts and bobo's when they have been broken. I have to take care of them just as you would your own children. They come first, and we meet in the middle. But my partners needs are priorty in my heart. Because those children are going to grow up and fly the coop, and I'm not going to be left standing alone. I do love the family life though, being around my daughters, being an important part of their live and watching them grow into beautiful young women.

**(If there were one moment in time, that would be greater than watching my two daughters be born. It would be the moment, that I stare into the eyes of the woman I fall in love with. That's when all time stops, every moment rest, every touch is engulfed, every kiss is never forgotten, and the sharing of our two hearts surpasses the expanse of time.)**

I also own and operate a 10 1/2 acre Blackberry farm. Which I'm down sizing this year though to a smaller farm, the drive every day is kicking my rearend. 120 mls round trip 3 times a day.

I am an L.M.T/M.M.S/N.M.R.E/M.M.P (Medical Massage Practitoner). I work with adults and children that have muscular and Neuro-Muscular disorders. My work is very rewarding and I love it.

I'm fit and healthy, my work keeps me that way. I'm not a rich man, but you can't call me poor either. A mans character isn't measured on how much money he has, because that can be taken away in the blink of an eye, I've seen it happen. Its based on how much compassion he holds with in his heart, how he truely loves and treats you as a woman and his equal in all things, and do things he says he will do.

I enjoy just about anything under the sun, dancing is loads of fun and I do it well, (But I'm not into the bar scene). I've been dancing sense I was 12 yrs old. Whirling you around the dance floor and we giggle because your head spins. I don't mind getting my toes stepped on, my feet are strong and solid. I do love to waltz though. I want to dance with my one partner close, not everyone else in the place LOL. When I do find my soul mate and partner, I want to be able to look my partner in her eyes and totally loose myself in her, because she knows and feels that she can do the same, and I'll be there to catch her if she should fall. You know that feeling of " It's OK, I've got you, and everything will be fine". I'm honest as the day is long. I won't have a relationship without honesty. I'm a good listener, if your having a bad day, I won't try to fix it, but I will just listen. Communication is a big thing with me, now here is were I try to fix it. If you have a problem with the relationship, tell me. If I don't know what's broke, I can't repair it, I'm alot of things but a mind reader I'm not LOL.

Walks in a park, grilling out and I am a good cook by the way LOL. Time with family and friends, laughing. Watching a good girly movie cuddled up on the couch and a foot massage. Dating is good to get to know someone. But I don't want to date everyone in the world just the one that wants to be with me.

A gentelmaen I am to the core. A true deep southern one at that. And that seems to scare ladies for some reason, I have heard that its because there were jerks in their lives, it's the "BAD BOY Syndrom" and some ladies have never been around a true gentlemen I guess. Well I don't like walking in others shadows because I'm not a jerk,(can be a stubborn butt sometimes depending on what it is LOL)but never a jerk. I know that I have to prove that I am the gentlemen I say I am. Opening doors, seating her first, I bring roses because I can, not because I have screwed something up- LOL. Being compassionate and having passion for my partner is very important to me. Holding her arm on and off a curb,( You'll thank me for that in time, holding your arm if you trip on a curb ) You don't want to be rolling around in the parking lot do ya? LOL. But I do what ever it takes to maintain the status of a gentlemen and a good man. I do humble myself before my God. He has been an ever presense in my life.

And Ladies if your looking for a long term relationship, then please no the meaning of long term. Not the" I'm not sure what I'm looking for game". I'm not out to play games, except chess, checkers etc... Chemistry is important, that first kiss does it unless you bump heads LOL, that don't count LOL.

Coffee at Starbucks, or another coffee shop you might know of, I'll be there with roses in hand. Or a nice place thats not noisy to get to know each other. Then we will go from there.

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Age between 37 and 50
Live in United States
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