IF YOUR LOOKING TO GET LAID KEEP LOOKING

UPDATE: DECEMBER 13/09
Why is it so hard to find a decent man these days... am I wrong in saying that its totally OK to be a gentleman... girls do like it... in fact we kind of enjoy being treated like gold.. not spoiled but treated as well as you wanna be treated... I`m wondering if there are any guys out there who think before they speak, and talk about whats on there minds and arent afraid to be a gentleman! I think more than ever what I want is a REAL man and that means that your secure enough to be honest, sincere enough to be bold and not hanging on to teenage fantacies of playing girls just to see how many you can get... I understand that there are some very good men out there... but I have yet to find a keeper... I would like to meet my best friend and confidente sometime before I'm too old to care anymore... I am secure enough with myself to know that I want a man who accepts me and my son as a package and realizes that life isnt always a ray of sunshine... I dont make drama but sometimes it happens upon at the worst time... I never judge a book by its cover because I dont enjoy that feeling myself! Please if any of this makes sense write me and tell me about it!

UPDATE: NOVEMBER 9/09
I think that a lot of people are on here looking for happiness... but happiness lies within yourself... One must truly be happy with themselves to be happy in life no other person can make that happen for you! I personally know this... acting like a victim constantly hands you things in life to make you out to be a victim... so take some control be the victor and become happy with you! In the words of an Author I thoroughly enjoy... SHUT UP, STOP WHINING, and GET A LIFE... look it up in google and you will find out who Im talking about.

UPDATE: JULY 13/09
I have decided that for now all i want is friendship, its a personal choice that makes a whole lot of sense to me. Not to mention I am a business owner now and dating seems to take my mind off the task at hand... oh and did I mention that I'm looking for a few extra people to help out with the business and maybe open there own!!!! tehehe anyways if u just wanna hit up the miniput or an arcade or just do coffee sometime let me know... i love new friends and will do what i have to to make time for them!


Back again you say? Yes .. I'm back again... but this time I have zero naieve hopes and absolutely no unreal dreams about who or what I might meet on here. As of right now I am living life to the best of my ability, which coinsidently is not to shabby I must say. I have a wonderful little boy who comes first before anything else. I have recently started on this wonderful self worth journey where as of now I have already righted a lot of wrongs from the past. I think its one hell of a start! For anyone who might actually read this I am not looking for a husband, I am not looking for a boyfriend, I am not looking a fling...(but not completely opposed if opportunity may strike) I am looking for a decent human being who wants a genuine friend, someone who wants to get to know me on a level no one else does. I know it might be a lot to ask for but I think its within reason. Anyways, send a message is ya like... if not... have fun!

Ideally I would love to do something completely off the wall and out of the ordinary!!