About Me
Who am i? I am a very caring person. I respect everyone and find that there is no real reason to hate any one. Okay, I know I sound like a hippy but thats how I look at things in life. When it comes to love it does not happen overnight. It takes weeks or even months for something. Dating to me is nothing but a word. I like to call it hanging out and seeing if we have anything.
I am a Roman Catholic who does not practice to the T. But I do look to god for help when it is needed. I do not talk about god at all so don't worry about me preaching.
I am also a big on family. Family is what makes the heart stronger with love.
I am a strong believer that if you are in a long term relationship that closes friends of the oppesite sex can cause much problems. I hate drama!
I do not play mind-games. I tell it how I see it. Communication is the key to a strong relationship and just not talking to each other. But understanding each other needs, wants, and feelings. The bigs thing is to understanding what the person is saying.
I love to make short movies and then show them to friends and family. I would like it if someone loved that same passion in making films. Just when there is a free time to take the camera ,go out, and make a short movie. That is my passion and what I love to do the most is to create! I have also joined a local film crew called Roundtable Reels. Check it out at www.roundtablereels.com
Well, that is me for right now. I am living by my self in utica and looking for a friend that might be looking for a long term relationship.

First Date
There will be not first date. I hate that word. Dating is pointless. Hanging out is better. Why?
Lets see. What do you think about when you first date? I am doing everything okay. Do I look good. Did i do this? I hope he/she likes me. BLAH!
Hanging out. What do you think about? What are we going to do. Gees, this guy is cool. This person is real.
See when you date you are not who you are and you protray someone different to get someone to like you. So, that is why I am who I am. I am a very strong believer that people should not change for anyone if they are happy as who they are. I will not change for you and you will not change for me. I do sometimes make things more eaiser on the relationship like asking for days off or changing my schedule to hang out. But as a person we should not have to change who we are. So, that is why I say hanging out then dating.
If the hanging out turns into something more. Great!
I am not a bar person. I do not like smokers, drinkers, or anyone that does drugs.
So, were would we hang out? Well, I like to take some out to eat. Eating is a big thing for me. I am very lucky not to be fat. Seeing that the summer is here that we go for a walk in the park. Okay, that sounded stupid. But if you can think of something better please do. I am always looking for something to do.
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