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JimsTheOne : Mr. Nice Guy - PROOF POSITIVE !
City
Belleair Bluffs Florida
Sign
Leo
Height
6' 1" (185 cm)
Age
60 year old Man
Ethnicity
Caucasian with Blond hair
Smoker?
No
Body Type
Average
Religion
Non-Religious
Rate My Picture
No
Trimaran Honeymoon Island 6/28/08
dating
 
 
 
I am Seeking a
Woman
For
Long Term

Do you drink?
No
Marital Status
Divorced
Profession
Mfg. Rep / Salesman
Smarts
Bachelors degree
Do you want children?
Does not want children
Do you do drugs?
No
Do you have children?
All my kids are over 18
Do you have a car?
Yes
 
  Interests
Dancinggolffishing
beachjust having funFort DeSoto
grillingpicnicslive theater
musicLatin DancingSwing
Ballroomhumortravel
cruiseconcertsethnic foods
gardeningrosesasiatic lilies
About Me
WILL A GUY LIKE THIS EVER MEET A LADY LIKE YOU?
or
WOULD A LADY LIKE YOU EVER FALL FOR A GUY LIKE THIS?



SHORT, SIMPLE and FACTUAL. I’m 60, (truth! YES - I've always looked 5-8 yrs. older, even when I was 13, back then I thought it was a good thing ), now, well (?). . ., 6ft 1, blond (with plenty of white) w/ blue. I’m a Penn State grad, I work in sales, have 2 adult children and yes, I‘m very family oriented, I love my kids! There aren’t too many things in life that I don’t enjoy doing, being introduced to, or learning about. I’m not very politically “correct” - I call them the way I see them and don’t plan on changing (might as well be honest about it!), you ladies keep asking for honesty and integrity, well there was a sample! If you ask a question, you get a straight up answer, no B.S.; if I don't know the answer or am uncertain, I'll say that too - I'm not into games, ego trips or deceptions. I give 100% effort in what I do - work, play, relationship . I like who I have become! I'm drama free and hope you are also. I am a people watcher, I see humor in almost everything including my own screwups. Some people consider me a "character" (yeah, I'm playing with their head, well maybe not) and others see right through the ruse and know "it / fun" when they see it (and believe me, I DO KNOW HOW TO HAVE FUN ) and then some ladies just know a fun mensch when they find him.

Currently I am taking dance lessons, (NOW THAT SHOULD PROVE THAT I HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR), {POF needs a visual of 2 left feet} and I would love to meet a lady who wants to share that experience with me. Yes, to do so she will also need a sense of humor!, the patience of a saint or be kind of masochistic. Yes, it will be an experience!). I did use the word “LADY” for I am a gentle man and a gentleman (atleast I truly try to be). While I don't drink, I'm not bothered by others partaking, I'll be the designated driver. I’m not easily impressed nor desire to associate with those who need to, or try to impress with possessions, money or power. What impresses me is what is inside a person, their "core values", OKAY - yes, I do appreciate a smart, good looking women, height weight proportionate who maintains herself, I'd be a liar if I denied it!.

I am about having fun, laughing, loving and living life; desirious of enjoying the company, thoughts, conversations and love of one very special lady who is looking for one very special gentleman (hint: that reference is to myself).

NOW back to the headline: Now, how can I prove I'm a nice guy - TESTIMONIALS - because I've been told so - repeatedly - it seems like after a date the parting comment has been (oh so sweetly said); ". . . thank you for a great time, you're really a nice guy . . .(hug optional)" - SEE, ISN'T THAT PROOF POSITIVE I must be, Mr. Nice Guy ! - they all say so!
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First Date
Lets call it an initial meet & greet:

Initially it is all about chemistry - first physical attrraction, then intellectual, then the complexity of the heart and finally sorting out & prioritizing real feelings and inter & intra - relationships (kids, family, friends).

A cup of coffe, an adult beverage, a banana split; it only takes a few minutes if it's oil and water; hopefully it takes a lot longer (lots and lots of dates, kisses and countless walks on the beach later) perhaps decades.

COMMENTARY 1: Ladies I truly apologize if we are going to meet and for some reason I do not recognize you at a public event - YES, it has happened. It may be that old 60 year memory loss, early alzheimers or my advanced dementia in which case I truly apologize OR it maybe you representing yourself with a 10 - 20 - 30 year old photo, a beautiful keepsake, but not a current reality like the size 8 that is now an 18 - if so shame on you for the misrepresentation. Perhaps worse yet is your just getting scared and standing a guy up or not intending at all to show, just an ego trip, a game. Pretty pathetic.

COMMENTARY 2: The Search for Perfection Internet dating has allowed us to better utilize our time in the search process as our lives be come more and more demanding. The web serves up an endless supply of possibilities. Consequently I believe we look for the negative to disqualify people instead of the positive attributes. We carry all our experience good and bad since our "first love" in seeking that perfect soul mate. Wow, have we made this difficult with all the reasons not to engage in a long term meaningful relationship. Maybe its THE FEAR FACTOR! I'm guilty, and if the truth were known so are 99.994% of us. Gosh, what would it be like if we reversed our thinking - looking for the positive instead. The internet - endless possibilities proliferating the negativity phenomenon that seemingly prevents happiness. Surf wisely!



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Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke


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