Pay close attention to my interests. If you don't match a lot of them, we're likely not a good match. I'm looking for someone with whom I have a lot in common. I'm not an "easy going," "chill," "laid back" dude. I'm intensely passionate and fiercely loyal. I don't cheat, so if you're a cheater or ever have been a cheater then I suggest you look elsewhere. I'm very bluntly honest, so if you can't handle the truth I'm not the one. I'm looking for a woman who wants to share her intellectual and social interests with me; and be interested in making that sharing mutual. So if you plan on talking, talking, and talking more without listening, I'm not the one. If you listen to ghetto rap and r&b, it's obvious you don't respect how I was raised or the culture I come from, so please bypass me. I'm not looking for any hippies or religious right conservatives. Also, I've never met a caucasian woman who cared about what I thought intellectually, so please only contact me if you are looking to get to know me in and out of the bedroom.

Hopefully we'll have some quiet time for intellectual conversation and some time to go bookstore or used CD store browsing. You know, to talk about memories from adolescence about songs we danced to and movies we screamed during. After that, perhaps a wine tasting or dinner/dessert.