The really bad photo of me is not me, but it's a ... well “looks a little like me" photo. I'll send you a real photo if you ask.

Do you have your own life situation, but also have basic needs that aren’t being fulfilled? Are you interested in finding a gentle male friend with whom you can enjoy an exclusive, discrete, and possibly long term friendship and intimate relationship with? Are you free to spend an occasional afternoon or night, or do some traveling (2 – 5 days at a time)?

I am a nice guy who wants to again experience the wonderful comforts a man and woman can and should enjoy. Do you remember experiencing the comfort of knowing and trusting your partner to the point where you trustingly surrendered your secrets and complete self to him? Remember enjoying his warmth as you cuddled up next to him. Remember his gentle touch, his curious exploration, and the kisses you received all over? Do you remember running your fingers through his chest hair, being allowed to explore his contours, and when you touched him in special ways, watching his body responded? And when you joined together with him and he with you, remember the wonderful feeling of fullness and feeling complete? And afterward, as the lust slowly drifted away, laying in each other’s arms and talking and kissing and touching as you drifted off to sleep. Has it been too long for you . . . it has been for me. I am not looking for a beauty queen, minimal or no make-up is my preference as I find the real person to be most attractive. You might be slim . . . or like me . . have a couple (not too many) extra pounds. You must be clean of all health issues (as I am), and like me ~ not be a smoker. And like me, you should be willing to be exclusive should we enter into an intimate relationship (if we do, you won’t be asked to do anything you are not comfortable with). I am a gentle person who can stay in that intimate condition for hours. If you like it "rough" or enjoy pain ... I might not be the right partner for you.

All too quickly, time is going by and each day we don’t reach out and fulfill our needs is a day we will regret later. I want to live and experience life, and I hope you do too. Consider surrendering yourself to your needs, and to this man who will put a smile on your face for years to come. Reach out, make contact, take my hand .. and maybe .. just maybe, our lives will be more complete.

Our first date would have us meeting in quiet little place where we can have a refreshment and talk. We should have a chance to explore each others character, and we will take in enough information about each other to decide if we would like to go forward.