I am a driven, ambitious, friendly and affectionate 25 year old woman. I know what I want and how to get it, I am looking for someone with similar views, attributes and goals who is looking to take life head on and achieve out of it what we want. I rate personal integrity, honesty and loyalty very highly as traits in myself and in a potential partner.

I am a choleric/melancholic mix (if you have read the book 'personality plus' you will understand this. if not, feel free to ask!) and ideally tend to get along best with Choleric/Sanguine types.

I am an extrovert who has a lot of time for my friends, family and loved ones. I can be a total dag at times and know when to not take myself too seriously and would like someone similar. I'm a big believer of personal development and tend to highly respect people with the similar 'drive to excel' component of their personality. (as wanky as that sounds lol)

I do not cheat on people, nor do I have trust issues, or self-worth/insecurity problems. I do not deceive, manipulate or lie and expect the same in return. I would prefer to not meet someone who identifies with these traits. I am completely disinterested in people who play games and struggle to communicate openly within a relationship.

I'm fair skinned, blonde, blue-eyed, around a size 16 and about 5,6" - 57" unless I'm in heels and then I'm a good 5,10" :)

I'm a telco professional and an independant business owner as well.

I enjoy all sorts of things, socialising with friends, BBQs, dinner parties, movies, shopping (of course lol) overseas travel, going for a drive, most different types of music (although not a fan of country and western). Love an intelligent, stimulating conversation with someone and love to laugh :)

Guys, I would prefer that you have a picture. I appreciate that there are extenuating circumstances that may prevent some from putting a picture up, but I will NOT meet someone without a picture first, plain and simple. A) Primarily, I have to consider my safety first and foremost and B) I have supplied several pictures of myself on my profile, I must admit I find it difficult to understand why there are some guys out there who expect me to meet them on a date with me having absolutely no idea what they actually look like. To be honest guys, if someone refuses to show me a picture of themselves and do not have a good reason to do so, my alarm bells will be ringing at a very very loud volume. If you can't put a pic up - just let me know that you can't because of whatever reason and we can work something out instead that doesn't compromise commonsense and safety, but still allows the opportunity for us to meet.

I'm not a huge fan of 'chat' but will happily do so to begin with if you are more comfortable with that, I'm happy to throw out my phone number, have a real conversation and then meet. No I'm not desperate lol but life is far too short to waste time with and I've seen some really lovely people on this site who I would much rather meet in person than stare at a computer screen at, all day long :)

**UPDATE**
Hi Everyone - My IM Chat has stopped working altogether. I am not ignoring you if it does not work - but I am simply unable to get the session working. Please message me instead.

Depends on the type of person and which interests we have that match..
I'm not too creative with this one guys :) - its more important to me to sit down and get to know a person than the actual activity we are doing at that time is.

Must not be married