Update 11/01/09 Hmmm ! Let me see, I have met some very kewl people on here (ladies) and then there is the rest of you, sorry...I have been doing it my way for a very long time and, well I have decided to refocus or increase my focus on God. Does that mean I am not going to date ? No, it doesnt, but I believe it's time to reprioritize my time and efforts. So if you know me, let's stay in touch and if you don't, unless you think "OMG" he may be the one, well then pass me by please. If my profile has really sincerely spoken to you (cuz you actually read the whole thing, LOL), then you can reach me at I2choose2laff@hotmail.com and good luck to you . Peace...

10/25/09 I have always prided myself on responding to everyone's emails in a timely manner. I intend to start school Monday, along with a new job and possibly getting custody of my youngest two. Please note: I may be a little slower in responding , but I will respond. I believe everyone deserves to be responded (at least once) to. Peace, Daryl

Hi, I'm older then I look (they say)but much wiser now then before. I want to be loved for who I am. Not who you think you can make me. I been often told I care about other peoples feeling too much, but if I don't, who will? I love the beach, day and night, still doing a little surfing from time to time.I love God, but am not religious.I am looking for my best friend.

I am way to old to play games, but young enough to be like a child all over again. Exploring all the possibilities in life, that were past by earlier, because others were counting on me. I am really looking for a playmate, a buddy, a friend, and someone who can penetrate my soul and me them. I know where the line is between fun and responsibility, but am open to push that line a little these days.I've got stuff just like everyone does. People who say they don't just aren't telling themselves the truth, but that's okay for them.

I love board games, please say that you do too. Horseback riding is kinda kewl, and one of these days, I've got to go scuba diving and snow boarding. Other then that, open my mind and I will open yours too, to all the possibilities we have but only just dreamed about until now. I'm not in a hurry, but I really don't want to waste any time.


By the way you would think I would be smart enough to know what year I was born.I am 52 not 42. Can't come up with any explanation as to why the date was off by 10 years,all I can say is "My bad !" My friends say I can pass for 40,but I just don't like lies. And apparently,after two weeks of signing up, they won't allow you to change it. Go figure. I am sorry if it seems that I tried to deceive you , but I promise it wasn't intentional. I am nice guy starting over after being completely devoted to someone for 18 years that was 10 years my younger and I guess, well I really don't know what happen, lets just leave it at that and write it off to "free will".

I stole this from someone Else's profile .She said, "Love is not in finding the perfect man / women, but finding an imperfect man/women and seeing them as perfect" That is so awesome. don't ya think...

I am not a big dater and have only been on my own for about three years. I like the beach and out door cafes. I just want our first date to be somewhere quiet and open, where I can smell the air and hear you talk. I like lots of things, and am ready to try something new. I'm really just a open-minded and laid back kinda guy, but I do have a moral compass. What ever we do, it has to be fun and legal.I would like to meet someone who will take me places and open my mind to things, I haven't considered before myself.

I really hate to mention this, I'm sure this doesn't pertain to most of us, but please be who you say you are. It amazes me how many people don't use current pics or if the do, they bury them amongst a bunch of thinner and younger ones. You have got to like yourself before you can expect anyone else to like you. I realize that beauty is only skin deep, but lets face it. Most of us don't pick up a book unless the cover catches our eye. I'm not looking for a supermodel, but I am working very hard to take care of my body, so I may be around for my children, their children and hopefully my spouse one day. Plus, it can't hurt my marketability right ? This is important to me, I hope you understand I am not excessive in my working out, but I am trying to be consistent, and it's not so easy. LOL .So,of course I am looking for someone who feels the same way.

I am looking for a nice/fun girl/woman,someone long term/forever. So what I'm saying is, I'm not looking for the hook - up ! I am a normal passionate and romantic guy, but I love Jesus too, if you sweep me off my feet, that's one thing,but I'm not a dog, if you know what I mean . I have a standard for my life that is difficult for me to maintain, and I will confess I have given in and compromised before, but I am really trying to be good. Wouldn't you really prefer someone who is at least trying to get into your head and your heart , before he gets into your pants? Lookin forward to hearing from you. Peace...