okay, so what IS it that i'm looking for?? hmmm....well, it comes down to wanting it all, i guess. wanting a relationship with a wonderful man who over time, would become my best friend, lover, buddy and pal. i am seeking a man who is at least in his mid fifties or older, someone who is classy but unpretentious, brilliant, hilarious and kind. i am playful but not a player and i would love to find a man who is also seeking a long term relationship. do the words submissive and spanking have particular meaning for you? if so, and if you are a Dominant man and a spanker - then we might have the ingredients for creating a magical, yet grounded, wonderful way of relating. please don't contact me if you are only looking for something casual, if you are married or in a committed relationship - be free and ready to open your heart - that would be ideal.

i'd like to go to dinner on our first date - someplace where we could get a sense of one another and have the opportunity and talk and talk - by the end of the meal, we'd know if we'd ever want to see the other again - and more, if we had the basis for a friendship, which would be fine - or if we felt the stirrings of romantc attraction. a great date would be one where we'd both have a fine time and would be delighted to make plans to see one another again - and again - and again.

Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter