Hi my name is Jay. I am a 30 year old Mixed Race female who was born and raised on the west side of Oahu. I love to laugh and have fun. I can be a goof ball at times but I also have a serious side that is all business when the situation calls for it. I love trying and learning new things. I am very family oriented. I am independent and responsible. I love to cook and I find it very sexy when a man can cook as well. I am kind hearted and I love to help people. I love to hang with friends and family. Whether we barbecuing and getting our drink on, or just spending time together watching a UFC fight. I am a very social person and I get along with almost anyone. I try to make the best out of every situation that I am in.

I currently work at Victoria Secret. But I am also planning to go back to school to become a dental assistant.

My hobbies include, singing, listening to music, reading, writing, doing crosswords, going to the beach, shopping, cooking, watching movies, and watching football although I haven't had much time to watch this season.

I love all kinds of music: R&B, Hip-Hop, Country, Reggae, Jazz, Soul, Alternative, Hawaiian.....I listen to a little bit of everything.


Although, I am looking for a committed relationship, I feel that in order to achieve a good, long lasting relationship you have to first build a good, strong friendship. I believe in love and honesty and would never cheat on the one that I am with under any circumstances. I am honest and loyal. I love doing nice things for the people I care about. I love spending time with my significant other but I also feel that it is healthy to have your own hobbies and interests. A little time apart is a necessity in any relationship. I am a strong woman with my own ideas and opinions but I am always willing to compromise with the one I love if we may disagree on something. I am looking for a man with similar qualities. Someone who is honest and trustworthy. A man who knows how to treat a woman with the respect that she deserves. Someone who is family oriented and loves to have fun. I need a man in my life that I can be friends with as well as lovers. A man who is the same person always, no matter who is around.

I love children and have 3 little girls of my own. My oldest daughter who is 15 lives with me and my younger 2 are in Virginia right now with my ex husband. Being a single mother has taught me a lot about the person that I am and the person that I want to be with. If there is anything else you want to know....just ask.

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It doesn't really matter what we do, as long as, we have the opportunity to get to know one another and have fun doing it.