if you can see my interests i bet your thinking about what type of guy can have such a weird bunch of different things on his mind.
well its the story of my life.

i dont throw stones when i know the biggest one deserves to be dropped on my own head. i do drink but not often and i dont go out to get drunk.

i like to try to help people when i can. i do tech support over the phone. its a tough job sometimes but it teaches me patience.

you would be surprised how people will modify their attitude based on how you talk to them. im not the type to lose my temper and im not crazy about people who cant control their own temper. but at the same time i do like a woman with a spicy personality. i dont mind a little bit of conflict in a relationship as long as we care about each other. if your arguing because you cant stand each other that is one thing. but if your arguing to work through a problem that is something else.
i wont ever stop until ive worked it out. its just the way i am.

im the type that is calm in the middle of a storm. occasionally im the storm itself.

i enjoy Karaoke and yes i sing. you will have to determine for yourself if you think im any good or not.

i am very much NOT the shy type. but i am not pushy or c0cky. i am sure of myself.
I know who i am and where im going.

i joke about everything but i can be very serious about some things.

recently bought a house.
did you ever get that feeling after moving to a new place that it didnt feel permanent? like you were just there temporarily? well i never have had that feeling here. its good to know that i have a place i can call my own.

so far i need a plumber, and electrician and someone that can drive a nail in straighter than i can.

i guess ill be spending my days off reading home improvement books at borders.

as i said before im not perfect by any stretch.
i mess up all the time. dont you?
everyday i have to remember what is important.
i have to wake up and remember each day is a new day for me to decide to do the right thing.

i try to be strong.
we all have our days (weeks, months, years)

I turned 40 this year (!) (yes all my pics are current)
but im determined i will be more in shape then i ever have been since joining the Air Force. (i got out in 96)

I think that going someplace to eat (or going to borders or B&N) is a pretty good way to relax and get to know someone.
im a laid back kind of guy. people tell me i put them at ease.
so im not worried where i go. just who i go with :>

note : the way you treat a waiter or waitress says alot about yourself.