~ AS A HEDONIST I SEEK PLEASURE ON IT'S MOST EXTREME LEVELS... COMPLETE SEXUAL INDULGENCE. ~
I do these things willingly because it fullfills a need inside me I can't explain.
I am a DOM... nothing satisfies me more than pleasing my woman and feeling like I am her perfect Master by taking her the way she craves when she gives herself to be loved... cherished... and used.
I hope to find my partner-in-crime, somone I can connect with and explore our minds, bodies, fantasies and mutual desires with. That includes love, respect, trust, friendship, lust, devotion...


I love D/s play, beginning with emotional capture and intellectual stimulation. If the chemistry is right between us, there isn't much you could suggest that I would be opposed to. I have learned that life's circumstances can be changed in the blink of an eye, and want to minimize drama, conflict and drudgery, preferring to laugh, explore and enjoy every moment.
I'm fascinated by the psychological aspects of D/s, and enjoy nurturing, taking care of my sub, and making sure she's purring with satisfaction. The desire to pleasure comes naturally to me, and is a deep part of my character. I love to delve into her past, learn her pleasures and pains of experiences left behind.
I am not looking for a pain slut: I prefer sensation play to pain. But I'm not beyond a good spanking or a little twinge of the senses as it suits our needs.
If your a doormat... I am simply not interested.
I appreciate that some ladies wish for the No Master, Yes Master scene, but I'm not that type of Dom. I can't connect with it. I would prefer the brat in my sub to come out and rebel rather than see that aspect of her personality repressed. Please, Express yourself dear...
I feel respect and complete understanding of a partner is priority one!!!

~ To produce within the two of us an infinity of new images and feelings that will raise us to ecstacy. ~

In many ways I tend to think of my partner as a temptress that simply loves to entice, seduce and indulge in excessive pleasure. Selfishly for herself, and generously for her mate.
The balance of power is maintained by the submissive.
Herself a conduit for fullfillment by empowering herself with her inherit desire to be cherished and used.
Submission is power... to balance Dominance.

We'll chat about it.