I could tell you a dozen or a thousand things that I like about myself but we both know that’s not gonna tell you who I am. It can’t tell you if we’re gonna be compatible in any way that really matters. No, what you want to know is, Am I the kind of man who has goals in life and isn’t looking for either the next Lay or a Placeholder for the position of "Mrs. Right". Am I the kind of man who’s strong enough to express his opinion and yet still honor yours? Am I interesting enough to provide you with hours of engaging conversation or even a strong, silent embrace that makes you forget the entire outside world. Am I the kind of man who can show you how confident he is with a single touch on your hand or a seemingly neverending gaze in your eyes? If you’re still reading this then you probably already know the answer.

I don’t live by a script and I’m not a victim of society’s demands. I’m a man for the woman who is done being evaluated by the self-absorbed checklists of endless average guys out there. I thrive on taking chances. How many times have you been with a guy who wished he would just have the emotional strength to reach out and take a chance with his feelings for you instead of playing it safe waiting for you to make the first move. I’m an impassioned thinker, not an encyclopedia of useless sports statistics. I’m addicted to making people laugh and to the people who are addicted to laughter.

I'm really good at listening without judgement. I'm really good at cooking because I love it so much. I am good at playing guitar and writing music because I need the creative outlet. I'm a really good conversationalist and I love to talk with others who feel the same.

Yes I do like music and movies, lots and lots, I love good music and a good movie. Here are a few examples: The Beatles, Jimi Hendrix, Rage Against The Machine, John Coltraine, Miles Davis, JS Bach, When Harry Met Sally, The Princess Bride, Napoleon Dynamite...but you can always ask if you don't see what you like on my list. It may be there but I'd prefer not to make a huge list. I'm simply not one of those guys who thinks I'm cool just because I listen to cool bands. I'll let you decide if I'm cool or not.

I love Asian food..Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Chinese...I'll try anything, even if I'm pretty sure I won't like it. And if I love it, I will find a way to prepare it myself at home because cooking is my second favorite creative outlet.


After reading all this you might wonder if I think the world revolves around my own Ego. Well, that’s just not the case. I’m a man with no identity issues or self esteem hang-ups and I can’t quantify myself with a clever online profile. If you'd like to know more about me, then I'd like to know more about you as well.

The setting can be anything where we can talk and be face to face....ideas might be coffee, a walk on the boardwalk or beach, or anyplace kinda quiet.