| girlznhorses The Seahorse:
Winners never quit, quitters never win! |
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| City |
lakeland Florida |
| Area |
United States |
| Ethnicity |
Caucasian |
| Sign |
Leo |
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Height | 5' 7" (170 cm)
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| I am Seeking a |
Man
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Who is Looking
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Long Term |
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| Smoker? |
No |
| Do you drink? |
Socially |
| Marital Status |
Divorced |
| Profession |
medical professional |
| Smarts |
N/A |
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| Do you want children? |
Does not want children |
| Do you do drugs? |
No |
| Do you have children? |
No |
| Do you have a car? |
No |
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| | About Me |
| | I enjoy being outside (prefer outdoors to in), have horses, cats & a dog, and like going to the beach with or with out fishing. I prefer to be active instead of spending alot of time watching TV, etc. I enjoy volunteering with animal & conservation based groups. Nothing radical - just respect for other living things & our environment. Following a healthy lifestyle is my preference. I travel easily & enjoy it - the western US & tropical destinations are favorites. I am open to trying new activities/sports. While I am competitive and strive to do the best no matter what the activity, I am not a poor loser - there is always the next time. I plan to finish my dive cert within the next year & really enjoy going to Sanibel Island, the Keys (thank you, Jeff), the Bahamas, etc. I make sure to have fun whatever I do & can 'roll with it' & adjust if things don't turn out exactly as we planned. Our outside plans got rained out? - we'll stay in bed, eat ice cream & laugh at silly movies! I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty & can drive just about anything - car, truck, boat, tractor, horse(!) whether automatic or standard. I can drive a hammer, shovel, drill, etc. - but not near as good as you. I can figure out how to do most things myself, but enjoy & prefer having you 'rescue me' from it. Whatever we do/whereever we go, I can swap from jeans to 'dress-up' to business to 'beach'& back again without missing a beat & be just as comfortable whichever one I'm in.
I like being openly affectionate & enjoy treating my partner well. I know my way around a kitchen & have been told I make a mean breakfast (no victims yet!!!) Eating out or in is fine with me. I enjoy little local places as much as fine restuarants. Laughing is good for the soul & it's one of my favorite things to do. Don't be surprised if I want to stop what we're doing to celebrate a sunset with you - it's one of the best times of the day & I'll want to share it with you. My partner will be consistently important to me & I have no problem acknowledging their presence/our relationship whether out around others or in conversation with an ex-partner or friends/family. I strive to be thoughtful, respectful & courteous to my partner. My mother taught me how to share, so I 'play well with others'- no sense of entitlement here.
I have a steady, stable career (it stays at work when I leave) & am not afraid to work/sacrifice for what I want - whether in my career or personal life. I really enjoy a committed relationship with an honest, affectionate person. I understand & subscribe to the concept of sticking together & negotiating the bad so we can celebrate the good. Getting through tough times is not so much about weathering the storms as it is about learning to dance in the rain together. Relationships are partnerships - in the kitchen, in life goals, in bed, etc. I believe that helping each other attain dreams/goals & celebrating them is one of the joys of a great relationship. No one leads, no one follows, it's working together that lasts.
So - you say you're looking for an LTR??? Then show me, don't just tell me! If your idea of a LTR means that I'll be nothing more than a gf after 3 exclusive years together - don't bother to contact me. Also, I WILL NOT tolerate a liar/cheat - for example - keeping profiles on multiple dating sites & continuing to look/contact other women after telling me we're exclusive. Life is too short for that kind of disrespect & heartache. Be a man about it - if you just can't help yourself & can't be faithful, don't get into an exclusive relationship to begin with. Try honesty - it's not that hard! (I'll still date you, but at least I'll know what rules to play by.) I do NOT cheat on my partner, either in mind or deed & expect the same common courtesy/respect. Also, please be sure you've moved on from your EX-wife/gf before getting involved with another.(Communication due to children/business is, of course, understandable.) After all, there's a reason she's an EX & not a 'current'. It saves broken hearts & all that goes with that. Please be true to your word - if you say you'll call or come over, then do it, or don't tell me you will. That is the same as lying.
I am respectful of my partners feelings & have been told I am loyal to a fault. I've been told I am easy to be with/please - just treat me well and with respect & honesty - as you would like to be. Don't hold back letting me know I'm special to you or you are thinking of me - the rewards are great for your open thoughtfulness. It doesn't make you vulnerable to do it, it shows that you care and you are a great partner for me. I will enjoy my time with you, but am fine by myself if you want 'guy time'. There are alot of things I enjoy doing outside of a relationship on my own that do not require male companionship.
The bar is pretty high, but if you can be an honest, trustworthy, respectful partner it's easily attainable. You never know unless you open up, take a chance and try. "Life is no dress rehearsal, we don't get 'do-overs' tomorrow if we pass an opportunity by today." And from one of my favorites, John Wayne, - "Courage is being scared to death ~ and saddling up anyway." |
| | First Date |
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Something simple & low key, allowing easy conversation so it will be relaxing and fun for both. Coffee, brunch, dinner - a light lunch by the water would be good. Or, some outdoor activity. Whatever we do I'll have fun, if there is no fun when we get there -we can make some! |
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younger than 55
Live in United States
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke
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