I moved from Chicago 2 years ago and am still looking for the one, not the many.

Seeking LTR where we come first in each other’s lives. Isn’t that what it’s all about? Letting our partner know that they are a priority in our lives? Isn’t that what makes a relationship last?

We all know the facts. You look at the pic (that’s okay, men do it too), you read the generic blurb where we tell you how wonderful we are and how serious we are about a real relationship, then you decide which ad to respond to. Hopefully we end up truly being as we have represented ourselves.

I’m 5’6” average build, and truly cuter than my pic (aren’t we all) I am looking for my partner in life. We’ll enjoy being together, and coming home to each other. We’ll anticipate when we will see each other again. We’ll be an addition to each other’s life, not an intrusion into it - the type of relationship where we make each other feel important.

We’re non-smokers, commitment oriented, and probably enjoy a local festival or art/craft shows more than boating or motorcycling (I don't ride, but also don't mind if you have your own interests) I enjoy 60's & 70's rock as well as NPR. I probably watch a little too much TV. No reality shows, but some series stuff such as Monk, The Office, Burn Notice, House, as well as much of the History Channel or The Discovery Channel

Some other preferences include.

Deep dish over thin crust
Trader Joe’s over AJ’s
Red checkered tablecloth over White linen
Steak over sushi (but I love fish & seafood)
Cow's milk over soy milk
Email over IM
Bike ride over the gym
Diet Pepsi over Beer
Anything over Denny’s

None of these are deal breakers. After all it’s not what you like, it’s what you’re like.

Non Smokers only, please

Okay, this is a little cliche, but true. A nice casual lunch on a Saturday afternoon where we aren't rushed, and can take as little, or as much time as needed should we feel comfortable