Welcome aboard!

The following is from the book: "His needs / Her Needs".
"His Needs" with my edits:
I am looking for recreational companionship,
domestic support (calm home life with little conflict),
someone who loves me for my strengths and for my weaknesses,
an attractive friend/girlfriend/wife,
a healthy and lasting physical relationship.

Book continues to say "Her Needs are":
Affection
Conversation
Honesty- She needs to trust him completely
Financial Support
Family Commitment
I hope to give all I can to help make the lady in my life very happy and include her edits on this list.

About me;
I am a 42yrs old, 6Ft 6Inches Tall, 240 LBS and in pretty decent shape.

I am very involved with Church stuff and service work in the community.

My sons (8 and 5) are keystones in my world and after my relationship with God they are the most important thing in my life.
The 3 of us ski, swim, kayak, play all sports and videogames together.
They are my gifts from heaven.
If kiddos are not part of your equation, then it probably won't pan out for us.
If you have kiddos then my view is the more the merrier!

I am recently separated and have a good working relationship with my ex.
But our marriage is over.
My divorce should be final 1 Sept 08.

I want to be there for someone, but don't want to have to create the whole relationship.
Sometimes I would like to lead, sometimes I would like to follow.
I am looking for a partner who I can complete and that completes me.
My missing puzzle piece.

I am completely heterosexual in my relationships.
I do not drink, do not smoke and do not do drugs.
I goto Church every week that I am at home from work and teach Sunday School for the kiddos.
I goto Church because I AM a SINNER and NEED Christ's love and forgiveness in my life everyday.
Going on Sunday recharges my spiritual batteries and gets me closer to my Heavenly Father, something I NEED.
It also gives me focus on what is important in life and gets my mind out of the secular world.

I really enjoy my work (pilot) and hope to do it forever.
With my job a get to travel everywhere, and am gone around 12-13 days of the month.
The rest of my time I am at home with my kiddos...doing something.
I have been blessed in my life, it is just missing that puzzle piece (you).

I am in excellent health, am very active and do not have any diseases.
I am up early in the AM everyday and go everyday until late at night, so if hanging out at home in front of the TV is your ideal day, then we would probably not mesh well.
Although I do enjoy some downtime on occasion and like going to the movies (favs Caddy Shack, Remember Marshall, 16 Blocks, Butch Cassidy and Sundance Kid, Animal House, Devil Wears Prada, Invincible, and Raiders) and multitasking with the Daily Show, House, Colbert Report, Sportscenter, South Park on at the same time...thank goodness for TIVO.
I like to squeeze the life out of every day and sweating and working are part of the squeeze.

I am looking for friends right now and do not want to rush into a physical relationship right off the bat. I have made mistakes in that area in the past (thinking a great sex life = a great soul mate)and I do not want to repeat those errors.
That is NOT to say I do not like a strong physical relationship, it is very important to me.
But I would like to establish a firm foundation (trust, spiritual, common goals)before jumping into bed.

I am in touch with my strengths and my weaknesses and am unafraid to share both with someone who is in my life.
My goal is to be rigorously honest and my life is an open book.
If you ask the question, you will get the answer.

If you are an independent soul that likes to be on the move, that is secure in who you are, that believes in hard work and CAN trust another person, then I would like to meet you.

Welcome aboard!

Lunch or a cup of coffee to meet and greet.
I am a firm believer in chemstry and know soon after I meet someone if we will have a lasting friendship.

Female
Must not do drugs