I would like to start off by saying, if I message you and your not interested in chatting then please feel free to delete the message and I have to ask this of all of you, there is a lot of people that still have their profile listed as looking for dating or long term, if your chatting with someone that your interested in then you might want to either point that out in your profile or put your profile to looking for "just friends" till you know whats happening with your current interest. Personally I think the people that say their talking to someone and want to see where it goes but don't change their profile to point that out, tells me your probably lying and just not interested, you'll get a lot more respect in your life if you were able to tell the truth.

Also, instant messenger on this site doesn't always work so if I don't reply it could just mean I didn't see the IM window so message me if you want to chat.

Well as the headline and nickname reads, I want to be happy in a relationship again, I no longer want to be single and to clear that up...I don't need a man in my life, I want one in my life. I'm not into playing games or being dishonest and I hope and expect the same in return. I know I'm asking a lot but you'd be surprised at how many people play games. I'm sure there's at least one honest guy out there. I am employed, and I have two kids who are older kids so their pretty independant. I should list off a few points that I don't like in people and it may narrow down the search a bit but it will save both of us some time in chatting and/or meeting if you fall into any of these categories....

1. If your married and/or attached in any way then please don't message me.

2. If you add me to your favorites list, I will either message you or you message me but if you have no intention of talking to me then you will be removed from my favs list as well as me removing myself from yours.

3. If you can't hold your end of a conversation then don't bother messaging me, I don't want to be the one doing all the talking.

4. If you have "prefer not to say" tells me and probably a lot of people on this site that your probably hiding something, especially if its something simple like "do you have children" (its simply a yes or no answer).

5. If your shallow, most definitely do not waste my time. I'm no barbie doll but i'm not ugly either but I'm guessing if your looking for barbie you might be single for a long time.

FYI: If your nice enough to give me your phone number to call you then I will, but please don't take offense (had someone recently take offense, get angry at me and told me to lose his # cause I wasn't able to call him within 24 hours) if I don't call you right that second or even that day, I am usually busy but I will call you within the first day or two.

Now, if any of this interests you then message me.

Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs