Hello,
I'm a almost 21 year old woman who enjoys life. I am a fairly predicable person, I spend most of my time working or studying for college, playing with my brothers, dogs or cousins or, hiking, riding a bike or relaxing watching an episode of Dr. Who every Sunday night and a half hour walk almost nightly. I don't care much for music unless you find song I dislike (then I care), I really can't see spending hard earned money on a concert, when I could just buy the CD go home and dance for hours at home. I work hard for my money; I'm paying as I go in college so I won't have years of student loans to pay off after I graduate. I try and always think ahead, finacally and about my future. I'm your run of the mill type-A personality with one great exception, I enjoy life. You can always find a smile on my face and I'm having a good time no matter what I'm doing. I have fun even while working I like joking around, horsing around and playing around when I have time. I have goals, and opinions and neither are easily changed, but I open to change if it is more efficient or has some better advantage. I try and keep an open mind. I evaluate all risk by the same formula risk vs. benefit, simple as that. I'm not asking for someone to be nice just considerate of others. I have a low thresh hold for drama, laziness, bad attitudes, depressing people and/or people who are constantly complaining instead of change things for the better and finally people who do not learn from bad decisions and keep repeating them in different forms. I appreciate honesty even when it isn't always welcome. Honesty isn't always wanted but it is needed. I have a bad habit of sometime choosing not to see things, I get these blinders on when I get focused on something and lose my peripheral vision. I am well aware of my flaws, I have a few though I believe they are far out weighed by my optimistic nature:). I am extremely close to my family. My three brothers, step mother and father are my best friends and closest confidants, I have worked in family businesses all my life with them day in and day out. This closeness is extremely unlikely to change at any point in my life. I am not as close to the rest of my extended family, they have a mistaken belief that they have a say in my life and believe they can force their believes and opinions on me. Family should never be like that, my parents raised me as best they could now my life is up to me, they may give advice and give support but, at no point may they force anything on me. They always support me in my decisions even when they disagree with them. I am extremely lucky to have such a fantastic family, that I can trust to always have my best interest in mind and to remember to be considerate of that mind. I only went in to explanation because most people I have told I am close to my family believe my family runs my life before I explain the situation. I am not Christan, or agnostic. I have a set of beliefs that are a mixtures of a lot of things I have come across, a little off the strait and narrow. I grew up out side a formal education, as a result I don't celebrate any holidays with the exception of the Fourth of July and New Years. I like fire works and I am working on a Pyro. license to work with the higher grade explosives and fire works.

My father made mention to me that "marriage is like two matched mules pulling a cart down life's highway." I liked that quote it explains a relationship perfectly if two people in the relationship are going in different directions you don't get anywhere. Only working insync together, through life's trails and tribulations can you get to your destination. anyone I am in a relationship with, I would like to want to spend most of their time with me as, I would feel the same. I enjoy carrying on intelligent conversations, and would expect to do so often. I don't play games and I would like the same curtsy. I believe men should act like gentlemen and woman should act like ladies(most the time:P). Manners are a strange concept it seems now days. If I sound like someone you would enjoy getting to know better please drop me a line.

first date? just about any where you can go to have fun and talk. going to a park or playing pool.

PS please don't IM me I rarely if ever can get it to work please just email me.

Thank you