i'm a refined country gal, living most of my dream. i'm independant, raising a 4yr old and we have a pretty good life. i'm very down to earth, family oriented, spiritually fit person. i have a good sense of humor, and values. i'm looking for a "buddy" someone i can truelly call my friend first. i like a manly man, a curse word don't make him "cringe", my man can get dirty, dress up or stay casual. i'm looking for someone whose had children, been around the block a few times. i don't mind a smoker or a light drinker, anything else is not what i'm looking for. i like to meet and go have a coffee....etc. chemistry is everything, you don't have to be breathtaking just have a good personality and a good heart.........good luck!!!!

i get a little nervous meeting new people but i love it!!! maybe set at the oyster bar at Pappas. i like to keep it light.......zero expectations. if we "click" we can discuss other entertainment, maybe some live music?