Hi I am 39 single and ready to settle down with a girl who wants a girl. If you just want a friend to hang out with that's fine to .I have been at my job for 12 years and love it. I have 2 dogs that are my babies. I love trying to play golf, joke around, laugh, dinners out, and I enjoy Hanging with friends and family or even quiet nights at home snuggled up watching a movie. I am honest and faithful. I am independent and expect nothing but honesty from others. I think personality is the biggest plus a person can have. I don't really like meeting people to date online but I hate the bars and will not go to them to meet someone. I have met some really cool people on (mys...e) and a friend told me about this site so I thought what the heck.


I am a workaholic and a homebody when I am not at work. LET ME BE VERY CLEAR,IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP, DATING , OR POSSIBLY GOING BACK TO YOUR EX OR OTHER DO NOT CONTACT ME I HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF THAT I WANT SOMEONE WHO KNOWS WHAT THEY WANT.I do not want a women who is still with or might want a man I only want a woman who is 100% sure she wants a woman. I don't mind if you have been with a man before I just don't want a woman who is with one now or still wants one at all I have had enough of those games.

I am not looking for a one night stand or to jump in bed with someone. I'm looking to meet someone and get to know them and possibly have a long lasting relationship with her or even a a friendship. I'm a one woman girl.




If you're reading this, you're looking for someone.

Maybe it's a fling. Maybe it's something deeper than that. Maybe you're looking for your new best friend.

Maybe it's even deeper than that and maybe it's that you're looking for someone to spend time with. Someone to develop a relationship with -- someone to laugh with and just all around be with. Maybe you're looking for your soulmate. I don't judge. It's POF after all...who knows who you might find?

Like, you might find me.

I don't drink, don't smoke(what do you do?), and I'm a relatively interesting sort of person. If you use proper grammar in text messages, I just might fall in love with you for that very reason alone.

It's hard to define me as any sort of person. I'm a lesbian on my best of days. I love women. I love talking to them, looking at them, admiring them.

And maybe, just maybe, chances are...

I'm looking for you too.

Just a basic meet and greet some where we we can both relax and just to get to know each other a little with no expectations then we go from there.Someone who doesn't just want to jump in bed after saying hi or in between women you are trying to choose from. I want someone honest and faithful with no games.Someone patient and not in a rush, one who can take it day to day and just relax

What I am looking for: She's a sweetheart of a person who wants to find true love.

She's outgoing, but doesn't have to be doing something all the time. She's affectionate and loving. She's not clingy and she DOESN'T mind when I talk to other women. She would understand that I am a natural flirt, but that it's more an energy, not outright flirting.

She loves women (only) and this is not her first or second time. I am not her first love, but I am her last. She’s strong and confident. She is intelligent and enjoys conversation, and must be a communicator. She wants a love that is intense and passionate. She is attracted to me on all levels... physically, sexually, and emotionally. She has the power to take my breath away with a single touch.

She's willing to accept my love. I have a lot to give to the right woman, but it must be mutual. She will be my best friend, my lover, my family, and my soul mate. She is able to touch my soul as no one has before, and allows me to touch hers. She feels protective of me and gives me a sense of belonging.

My dream is to find someone to love forever and to feel so comfortable in that love that the words "I love you" don't HAVE to be said... it's just felt.