I tried just writing a simple little message and they wouldn't accept it..I was thinking "short, sweet and to the point" imagining that most men would be relieved (thrilled) to have a woman that didn't ramble on endlessly about nothing..but, hey what do I know?(I design for men every day...you'd think I'd know "something" about the way the think and live :S )

Sooo...here it is..I'm looking for a gentleman (sort of like my grandpa but younger)someone smart(sort of like my financial advisor, but all mine) Someone fun (not funny like Jim Carey - the thought of kissing him makes me gag) someone secure (financially, emotionally etc etc) someone adventurous(not hazardous to his health kind of adventure, just good clean fun), honest(only on the days I look great, not on those other days...they don't happen often, but best that you be sensitive enough to notice when they are happening..) Some one that is well groomed, reasonably fashion conscious, polite....ok, that must be enough letters for the dating advisory panel now...I will change this soon, to something more witty, creative, sensitive and exciting...but for now, this is it! :)

After explaining how it is that my hair color has changed yet again...today it's brunette it was red last month!And now it's back to blonde!(Variety is the spice of life!)

We could go to a little gelato place, walk the seawall and head to an art gallery... in that order...you know how those gallery people are about sticky fingers! ;)

Or...you could just surprise me! Hmmmm...maybe that's not a good idea, probably best to get to know a person a bit before surprises are planned! Can you imagine...I show up in cute little black dress and stillettos and you've planned mini golf at dusk! I'd be fine...I'd probably just take off the stillettos and play barefoot...but, I'm not sure it would help my golf game!